Is there a way of telling if a girl is stringing you along? Are there any particular I.O.I.s which are involuntary and honest?

Thanks.

Assume it's on all the time, unless she tells you to fuck off, turns round and walks away (that could be a shit test though )

Be oblivious and don't get stuck in your head thinking IOIs.

I would have thought that if she starts touching you it would be a genuine IOI, and looking into your eyes while you are talking.
I generally assume that if a womans' eyes glaze over, I'm boring her to death. Glad to know that really she's getting ready for sex!

The only thing I'd add to this is to be aware of insecure women, or women who label you with the 'player tag' - closed body language, but other signs of interest. Conclusion: just go for it, give more comfort if needed.

I think I know what you mean, but could you elaborate? Recently I've been exploring this more, but I think in my proper AFC days I didn't respond to it at all.

Anthony

If they display closed body language then keep building comfort. As Sapmi said, assume its on all the time - that's gotta be the simplest and most effective way of going about it Zest. Initially, there will be times when she does not like you, but as you carry on the conversation, she can warm up to you. Just remember its always on - I mean why wouldn't she want you man!? With experience you'll obviously get better so just be in the field as much as possible!

Ritz

Thanks guys, I wouldn't normally worry about something like this but on this occasion I wasn't actually sarging, this girl just started hitting on me, which is why I was cautious.

Beware of girls with an ulterior motive. If a girl is trying to get you to buy her a drink, make someone jealous or get attention, she will put on over-exaggerated IOIs such as laughing at everything you say which is remotely funny, using loads of kino etc.

If you find a girl like this who seems to be TOTALLY and OVERLY into you like this, she is either a slut, or a case of the above. Either way, steer clear!!!

True IOIs include

• Eyes glazed, sexy eye contact
• biting her lip
• Playing with her hair
• kino
• laughing at your jokes
• Generally showing an interest in what you have to say
• Responding to compliance tests