So basically if i wanna fuck a girl, ill just pin her to a wall... kiss her, without thought i know she will play ball.

some girl is comein down tomora, UBER FIT.. banged her years ago, know she is game as a badger...

yet i feel somewhat nervous about it!! wtf is goin on?? i know if i do as i always do she is gonna play ball... but somethin keeps popin in my head like its not gonna go the exact way it always does!!

a female friend said its my human side showin... coz i like the girl!

but whilst i like this little nervous twitch that i rarely feel... i dont like the unsurity it gives me.


i would like some NORMAL input, if anyone starts goin on abar methods or game or any mental jizz wash!! go fuck urself!

MAybe you actually see potential in her as a girlfriend and you are worried that she will laugh at you and just see you as a shag?

Perhaps you like her then, like your friend said.

I've had this feeling before, and I just think, FUCK IT, and by the time your kissing her, it won't even be in your head any more

remember who you are!! a guy who everyone on this forum thinks is a legend!! do us proud kiss her and fuck the arse off her!!! now!!

Not sure how it relates but your post made me think of this story...I was seeing a girl a while ago...prior to sleeping with her I became aware through some mutal friends (that had known her for years) that all her ex's had consistently been massive black guys. I also saw some (not entirely confidence building) pics of these exs and yes...I'm talking Michael Clarke Duncan sized bastards...(She was small and white)

N.B: I am not a massive black guy.

So I kinda went into my first sexual encounter with her with a ton of butterflies in tummy.

Like the little guy with his back to wall, I felt that 'fight or flight' thing kick in, I just grabbed her and in the words of the great Richard Keys.... 'I smashed it'.

Turned out to have been the right thing to do. She was pretty into me after that and we saw each other a while. Great sex. Good times.

I think...if you actually 'like' a girl the worst thing you can do is let your affection/genuine interest in her manifest itself as 'pussy footing', sexual trepidation or wrapping her in cotton wool. If you like her on any deeper levels, (even subconsiously) make sure you channel that tension such that you let it all out and fuck her like a caveman...in my experience it's alot more likely to 'seal the deal' longer term than tickets to the theatre, protracted back rubs and a gentle conservative love making session followed by talking about your 'feelings'

My 2 cents. Hope it helps..

No. I dont! not one tiny bit

the first time i fucked her was 4 years ago after my ex!! i hadnt been with anyone and this was back when i was wet behind the ears!

i fluffed it... and couldnt get a hard on at first!! and have been ripped for ages by my mates(which has been funny)

its kinda like my redemption!! think kowalski is right its more anticipation!

fixed!.....

that was hilarious phill wen reading that quote i was like WTF I don't remember saying that

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