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Default Problem: Girl At Work. - 03-03-2011, 07:15 AM

Hey folks,

Okay, so I work in a theatre, bar-tending and there's this cute waitress girl (6-7tops)... The problem is I'm finding it difficult to get the time to talk to her.. She's in a completly different part of the building, finishes before me etc etc its just all terrible timing.
I could go out my way to find the time... But i'm also keeping my patience.

What would you do?

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Default 03-03-2011, 07:37 AM

Sure.

But how am I going to go about it when she's working?


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Default 03-03-2011, 10:06 AM

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But how am I going to go about it when she's working?
Chat to her I guess. It's obviously limited if she is busy, but from this you can arrange something away from work.

Ask her how she is, or if you're feeling ballsy telling her you what you think of her.


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Default 03-03-2011, 10:08 AM

If you have absoultely no window to game her then just simply say 'me and a few others are going for a drink after work (obviously on a day you're not working, if as you say you finish earlier), I'll see you there. Don't be AFC about it just assume she's coming.

You've probabaly 10 minutes to game her before she asks where the others are, by that point you're either in or out and lets face it you were out before so what have you lost. One word of warning you need confidence to pull this off, if your games weak or you lack confidence she might just see you as a guy that tricked her.

A far better option is to day gamer her at work if the opportunity presents itself.

Good luck

And if you blow it where do you work? If she's as good as you say she is I might pop in for a meal.


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Default 03-03-2011, 10:16 AM

The longer you wait about this you'll just add to your anxiety of approaching. Seriously best thing you can do is go and talk to her at the first opportunity you see.

Best thing you can do is be fun and playful and make work that little bit more enjoyable if you can then literally arrange to see her out side of work as soon as you can.
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Default 03-03-2011, 11:30 AM

If you REALLY want to talk to her, you make it happen. The more you come up with excuses the least likely you will ever talk to her. If you do come up with an excuse, it should be an excuse to talk to her.

Seen this girl twice. She is working in the same building but different company and different floor levels. One day she walked past me and I spotted a tattoo in her arm. Did the "flawless claw", stopped her and asked about the tattoo and took it from there...! Bingo!!


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