Just experienced something very peculiar...
I tried this on a couple girls, and it works..( it was online, so dont hate )
The first half an hour or so was, basically, an arguement. And it was going BAD!! a little quote from her " maybe if you didn't act like such a twat you could get a nice girlfriend! "
So yea, you see how it is....
It seems it's a lot easier to twist that situation into something positive, but the key is to NEVER BACK DOWN and say sorry for anything you've said, you want to look succesfull in every point you've made...
How to twist the arguement? little dashes of humour. stuff to make her think " what the hell is going on in this guys head"
Maybe it has something to do with standing out from the other guys, and showing that you're not interested....

Hope this helps!!!
ps the girl that thought I was a twat, now ends our conversations with, "cant wait to chat again" blah blah..

Laka!

I don't think it's that peculiar. Having these playful arguments is something that keeps the girl on her toes intellectually, keeps relationship balance on the edge (in a good, non aggressive way!) and indirectly let's the female know that its the male in control. That is, a strong minded man is attractive. Leaders and all that!

But key to this is, after these playfully debated - even argumentative - sessions, not to be like that all the time in how you relate to one another. That wouldn't be relaxing.

That girl you mentioned has viewed you as a challenge. She has loved the cheeky and/or stubborn nature of your banter. Shows you are a real man, a passionate man, not a pushover simple inoffensive unopinionated guy.

Its a shit test she's testing you or you've gone overboard with the arrogance.

Its always a fine balance ONLINE, because I've found the best results online are ballsy and cocky, not arrogant. It shows confidence which is hard to convey without body language.

I doubt you'll get much support on here a lot of guys fucking hate online stuff.

For my money ther is only 3 ways you could take it. Diffuse, go back stronger or burn her.

Diffuse. 'Were too simialr you won't take my shit and I won't take yours.'
Going back stronger is really up to you, things like 'what makes you think I want a nice girl, etc etc

burn her and find another girl, if she's not giving you her number soon I'd burn her anyway

Save the sweet talk untill you've fucked her