Ugh had a pretty fun night last night but a tad hungover now and an awareness of having spent too much money. Had this girl who I asked on a day two and she didnt want to. Said she'd rather I went out with her and her friends. They invited me to a party, I didnt go. Weeks later yesterday evening

a rough descrip of texting follows, pretty clear cut attraction with neediness test in middle I think
Her 'Hi we're having another reunion, u should come x'
Me 'Yea maybe later in evening, got to go out with mates first x'
Her 'Are you coming to see me? x'
Me 'Would like to but am drifting away from your part of town, can no longer promise I will x'
Her 'Your obviously not that interested then'
Me No reply
Her 'Whats town like? x'
Me 'Having a good time, towns full of assholes x'
Her 'I'll have to come out with you guys sometime x'
Me 'I'll chat you up on facebook sometime next few days x'
Her 'ok have a good night x'

Next move advice? I feel like she will still want me, its almost like I'm playing hard to get with her but I'm just busy sarging with an abundance mentality. This girl is ok and has pretty big tits. She's comparably not as good as a lot of other girls I'v met and I'd be annoyed if she accidentally became my gf. How do I keep it fuck buddy? My guess is first have sex without making promises or providing her anything. I'm not the provider guy! cheers

Arrange a D2, just the 2 of you, if she wont have it bin her off
she is obviously interested in you in some shape or form.

There's no need to make promises of relationships just to have sex. Make it plain. You just wanna have fun.

Sex should be fun, got it. I have a sticking point where I expect it to be humiliatingly crap and then all her friends will grin at me knowingly. I need to start daring to imagine that it would go well and she would enjoy it and think 'yeah that was both normal and good'.

You need sexual immersion, fuck anything, drop your standards -- soon you wont give a toss, have loads of experience

you gotta paint yer bangers before you paint yer Rolls.

No, not quite what I meant. I'm saying to avoid falling into a relationship by 'accident', like you are worried about make sure she knows you are not after a relationship, just some fun.