Ok, i got a girlfriend, we have been together for like 2 months, today when we were txting on MSN she said some really weird things, just confusing ...
What you need to understand to help me is that this girl really likes me ! Don't ask me why I am so sure about it, i just know it, i have dissapointed her many times, she just knows that i am not the boyfriend that is easy to keep, she forgave me many wrong things that I have done. She sometimes tries to act 'tough' and 'hard to get' but i know that she is just trying to act like that, she secretly knows that I am the cool one, and the CRUCIALLY important thing you need to know is that we HAVENT had sex yet, she is 18 years old.

So, the thing is, today we had a normal texting conversation on MSN about music and about me when i was a little boy :P she was very kind, she was chasing me ... then i said this:

'I wish you were able to stay in Paris with me, people tend to say that Paris is the city of love, just interesting'

She replied: 'Yes, i have heard about it, but with u i wouldn't take my chances'

When i read that, i was really dissapointed and i didn't want to believe that it is my GF telling me this, it is just not appropriate to say such things to BF.

I ignored it for a while and didn't reply.

Then she said: Any comments ? Don't u have any comments on that ?

I said: 'Well, all i understood from that is that u wouldn't like to take your chances with me, sweety, who told u that u ever had a chance ?'

Then she started to act like a total bitch, she even said: 'is it all you can say to that, i thought you are more tough than that' ?

I replied: 'haha, u r funny when ur trying to act tough'

SO GUYS, what the hell was that supposed to mean ? I just don't get it ... I thought that she pulled a hard one, so i just acted cocky to that and didn't pay much attention ... but it confused me...

Any help ? )

testin the water...

she wanted u to be bothered... she want to know u care

stop with the game, u have the bird... let her in (A LITTLE BIT)

let her in ? can u explain this further pls

Bouncer161 if I spend 500quid on a door security badge, how much will I earn as a shopping centre security guard ? I dont see the point if I cant re-earn it in a couple of weeks.

So in 2 months of you going out you have constantly let her down....
Sounds like the great basis for boyfriend

maybe its because, you dont give a shit, you have let her down so many times


My advice is to actually be a normal nice person who gives a shit instead of trying to play games with her 2 months into seeing her whch in my mind is pointless.

You have painted yourself as pretty shit relationship material -- ask yourself what do you want.

ur clearly bothered about loosing her, if she walks u will hate urself.

just start bein nice to her half and be as u are the other

thats twice as nice as ur bein now.

DO NOT, be nice to her all the time or she will treat u like a cunt!

just stop playin mysterys method, ITS OVER!!! nobody cares about his method anymore.

ur with her, just tell her u love her

enjoy her company, put ur cards on the table & let ur emotion go, if it goes well SOUND

if not deal with it, thats life.

She's playing you back at your own game and being a bitch, like you being a twat towards her and rightly so cos you dissapoint her down so many times. Stop messing this girl about if you are seeing as you have said you are. If you dont want to be with her, just let her know. If you want to be with her, treat her well...!

Also, is there a reason you haven't had sex yet? What if she's crap in bed... you might not find her such good relationship material then.