ok guys so have been on here a couple of weeks mostly reading posts and i have found this forum fascinating. i came here after learning about this community from starting to read the game (i imagine this is the same story as alot of people) but i am alittle confused i guess.

so what i am here to ask might seem stupid to alot of you, perhaps i am over analysing but i would like your opinion.......
is this all a game?
ok, let me break this down.
i want to re-find the confidence to approach a woman, engage and close the deal (and i dont just mean get a fuck, i mean any sort of close)
i have read so many posts discussing approaching multiple girls in one night, guys receiving IOI's, getting kiss closes and then moving straight on to the next girl...... or sometimes sarging two seperate girls in the same bar/club.
i just wonder if this is part of the process, to play this game where a girl goes from a name to a score based on her looks, does this make it easier to approach? to go into a situation without caring about the outcome?

it doesnt make sense to me to approach like this, if i am dividing my time or not commited to closing that girl in front of me then why am i bothering?

i ask because maybe i need to change my thinking, i am in the process of analising myself, how i interact, why i have taken this confidence dip so that i can change and improve.
i would appreciate any opinions/ ideas on this guys.... help a newbie out!

This is little confusing but I'll try and answer. The number score given to girl is irrelevant, it is said on forums, as not to give names out and so readers can understand if she was hot or not in the eyes of the guy posting.
The reason people often approach many women in a night is because you kinda have to if you want to get good and see any sort of results. Most people like talking to people, find it fun meeting girls. Going into the situation and not caring about the outcome makes it a lot easier and it's something you have to do as you don't know her, she could be an idiot and someone you would never want to even have a basic conversation with. Also by getting into conversations and flirting with girls early on it gives you confidence or "state" as it's called which makes you even more attractive to women. Different people go out for different reasons, but at the bottom of it, is it's nice to have a choice. My reason for getting into this is too get the perfect girlfriend eventually, but I'm incredibly picky with girlfriends. On the other side until that happens I want to have as much sex as need/want with other girls and have fun getting there.

Shit also your from Hastings, I used to live there. Bad news about the Crypt and The Street huh.

thanks mate, this is what i mean.
i need to know if i go into this the wrong way and i think i do.
i guess its confusing because i am confused!
perhaps focusing to much on the end before i have even started??
thank you for the comment mate, only other reply i got was a pm reccomending i leave the forum!?
i am here to learn and understand and improve, and all advice helps.

real disappointed about the crypt mate, apparently concentrating the money into the brass monkey tho which is also pretty good so not a complete loss.

If you want to improve your confidence with girls generally and be able to close, the best thing is probably this torrent, RSD ? jeffy show ? isoHunt ? the BitTorrent & P2P search engine . Huge torrent (not sure if it works), but has around $3000 worth of the best PU content out there by a company called Real Social Dynamics. I would sack of trying to learn anything from the game, it's weak and doesn't work unless you spend years turning yourself into a robot, reciting unnatural lines.