Right so I'm a student and typical nights out involve going to a club where its way too loud to talk, so the only game you can play is primitive dancefloor game. I look around and all I see is a guy go up to a random girl, start grindin behind her and if shes drunk or horny enough she'll reciprocate and the guy might get lucky. But what usually happens is the girl moves away and the guy rinses and repeats on another girl until he does.

My problem is I just can't reduce myself to this primitive level of game! I love playing the game when it involves opening sets, building comfort and closing etc but I can't bring myself to start rubbin up on a girl that doesn't know anything about me and can instantly reject me based on bullshit parameters. I've managed to reduce myself to this a couple of time and get some k-closes but where is the skill/reward in such basic behaviour?

Anyone else had this problem? Any ideas on how to get past it or a more sophisticated form of dancefloor game?!

I'v been ground (?) a few times since starting to sarge and I did like it but agree what most guys cruising for tail on the dancefloor do is pure filth. If evryone was naked they would just be straight out fucking. Requires zero intelligence its completely base instinct the only skill is having money for booze and a set of balls. Depends how much space there is on the floor, I generally just dance to self amuse and u can see interested girls dance closer and turn their backs, hoping i'll grab them and dance with them. Havent yet mastered how to follow that through. Smoking areas are good for pulling.

Ok, 10 years ago i used to podium dance/ breakdance in night clubs.
Having very slick moves on the dancefloor draws girls to you like a magnet

i am totally out of the loop in that respect now and trying to dust off my dancing boots

Dance if you enjoy it, if not why go to a club?

What he says.

Plus ya can open girls in quieter bits of nightclub away from dance floor, and/or isolate em out in smoking area -- u don't have to smoke, I dont --- to have a conversion! So its another way than 100pc reliance on dancefloor game.

Fucking prude!

This is massivley paradoxical!

Fuck dude you are a prude, basic behaviour lol! So its been successful and yet you still reject it. Honestly mate, pulling girls is nothing to be proud of, and certainly isnt a 'skill'. When you can do it its cos you come from a place of real self assurance and genuine confidence in yourself. I cant dance for shit but do it anyway cos I really dont care what some drunk tart might think of me. And yes im probably one of those drunken 'chodes' you see grindin on lasses til one thats 'pissed' enough grinds back and ends up coming back with me. I think either you cant dance or have confidence issues dude.

Sophisticated lol! My advice, get salsa lessons or learn to genuinley not give a fuck.

Wow.

This sums up literally every club that's in my town, so dance floor game is pretty much the only thing I've been doing and developing. It certainly isn't primitive and you're not REDUCING yourself to anything.

This is not dance floor game. This is just creepy, lonely guys without a clue

Funnily enough I've been meaning to write up a post about dance floor game. When I have a little bit of time I'll get on it.

Well get to it, some of us need the advice pretty urgently

Coz he doesnt wan to lower himself to somethin he hates just to get laid, which is admirable

Erm Yes it is, where are we again.


Yes but are you doing it to prove u dont care, or coz u enjoy dancin, coz he clearly doesnt


i dont give a fuck, dont mean i do stuff i dissaprove of. whilst the guy who started the thread comes across as a bit of a pretentious wally. i partly agree... dancefloor game is pathetic..

i dance to dance, if a girl comes up to me, she is removed, coz im there to dance. im certinly not gonna dance like a jester for the affections of some woman

There seems to be a bandwagon thing happens every so often on this forum.

look mate dancefloor game is bullshit!! infect we cant even call it game its just luck rely. Im a rely good dancer and i have had a few girls come upto me on the dance floor all you can do is kino to fuck and if she likes you its on, if not then fuck it move on to the next chick.
you can try and isolate but when girls are having a good time on the dancefloor usually with mates they are not going to leave it, your best bet is to wait til they all leave the floor then move in and do your thing, or another one is to wait til she goes to a bar thats not on the dancefloor then its on . Its like a game of chess brov take your time and watch the club bar thats were the game is best played trust.