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Default Approaching hotter chicks. - 01-02-2011, 07:06 PM

Approaching hotter chicks.
Preparing to fail.

Guys here's my sticking point.

Only approach girls I am pretty sure I'm going to have a great response from.

Sooo only approach hb7's or lower.

How do I get over fear of rejection?
Am thinking just approach with the aim of getting shot down?

Ideas?
Will field test any feasible idea


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Default 02-02-2011, 06:15 AM

Welcome to the glass ceiling. All you can do is smash your way through. If it doesn't scare you a little bit then you're not doing it right.

I take solice that I even remember the girls that rejected me a week later... Or even the girls I kissed!

It's all a big game really... Don't feel bad for not get the result you want the first, second or third time round. All that matters is you're playing. So angood look girl and open her. Trust yourself that you'll deal with it... What ever the outcome.
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Default 02-02-2011, 08:26 AM

Knowledge bullet time.

I've actually been asking around, and it seems that a lot of the time (definitely not in all cases) the hotter chicks get hit on less. Yup. Less, because most people are chumps who will stare at her across a room saying to his mates "hey man, look at that girl. She's so fit... blah blah fucking blah."

And honestly, you know when you look in the mirror and think "I wish this belly was smaller / I had a better shaped nose / my hairline was stronger / I had two eyes"... well she does the same. Guaranteed she hates (or at least dislikes) something about herself and would actually enjoy being chatted up.

Imagine you looked like Brad Pitt, or whoever the ladies swoon over these days. You wouldn't feel bad if someone a little less attractive than yourself came over to you and started talking to you. Same thing will apply to the women, but I guarantee that she's no Angelina Jolie...

As long as you're not a fucking douche (which I'm pretty sure you're not), you should be fine.

What you've done so far is expanded your comfort zone to level 7, but 8, 9 and 10 are outside of your circle. Start aiming for 8's. Expand it a bit until they're comfortable. Then go for 9's. Comfort. 10's. POW, the world is your oyster


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Default 02-02-2011, 08:43 PM

Top advice chaps, but was looking for anything someone did to give themselves the kick up the arse to approach the hb8-10's

The No Wank February is deffo going to give me more urgency!

Was thinking of approaching with the aim of getteing rejected, i figured if I do this enough I get desensitised. Am gonna field test some stuff will report back

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