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Question Advertising yourself to others by dating with a girl? - 11-01-2011, 12:01 PM

I've got an HB7 (might be 6.5 but she is very young to/for me), on Facebook. She accepted to date with me.
(Nowadays I'm not at home, anyway. and she lives near my home. also she was easy, probably because she is not that much attractive and I was direct)

Is it a good idea to date with her, in order to advertise myself among her friends? (close or distant friends, doesn't matter)

She is a bit cute but not that attractive.

(Note: I'm not known among the girls, and I don't have social proof)

I want to date with her with purpose to advertise myself to other girls, and also I don't want to date with her because I don't want to be seen as low standard guy. What should I do?

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Default 11-01-2011, 12:25 PM

Don't go there. Dating girls in in order to get other girls is appauling behaviour.

Be the 'high value' guy. Don't rely on others to put you there.


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Default 11-01-2011, 12:26 PM

Typical rule of thumb as far as I see it. Women, as well as men, won't cross the streams. My friends would never go for a girl I've hooked up with, and coversely i'd expect that most girls wouldn't hook up with a guy who's done something with one of their friends.

Generally, I'd say that if you go for her, rule out her friends


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Question 11-01-2011, 12:32 PM

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Typical rule of thumb as far as I see it. Women, as well as men, won't cross the streams. My friends would never go for a girl I've hooked up with, and coversely i'd expect that most girls wouldn't hook up with a guy who's done something with one of their friends.

Generally, I'd say that if you go for her, rule out her friends
But it is not for hook up (sex?) thing. I don't know any other way to enter among them. Here is no night life, almost no girls at the cafes. I can't see any way other than by becoming friends on Facebook then entering among them. But I'm always stranger to them. I really don't know what to do.
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Default 11-01-2011, 12:34 PM

She will be your 'pivot' as long as you don't close her. If you do so, you will lose the reste of the group.


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Default 11-01-2011, 12:39 PM

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Here is no night life, almost no girls at the cafes. I can't see any way other than by becoming friends on Facebook then entering among them.
What makes these girls so special? Try some day game.


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Default 11-01-2011, 02:53 PM

u dont get value datin uglies....

right last post, need to work.

i was on the mooch for some stripper, seen her last night with some UGLY cunt, with one black tooth...

i wont ever shag her now NOT EVER, coz i thought, ur so low value


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Default 12-01-2011, 01:56 PM

I have a girl I know in southampton whos been one of my best mates for best part of 10 years now, we go out once a month and you do get alot of attention when you out with her and a friend or two.

Gives you social proof and triggers preselection. I went out to the same club with a couple of my mates, her and some of her mates. We got attention. I went a week later with just my mates and completely different experience.

If you want to boost status, she needs to be hot, she needs to want to be your friend and hang out with you. If she likes your company she'll help you meet people. Heck this girl I know once msn'd me all sorts of weird questions and when I asked why she was asking she said "I've made you a profile on a dating website and this girl is taking to me quick!" lol!
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Default 12-01-2011, 02:03 PM

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If she likes your company she'll help you meet people. Heck this girl I know once msn'd me all sorts of weird questions and when I asked why she was asking she said "I've made you a profile on a dating website and this girl is taking to me quick!" lol!
Haha! Girls love matchmaking.


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Default 12-01-2011, 09:24 PM

Oh yeah see falling into the friends zone actually can be a good thing sometimes if you genuinely end up being great friends.
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