Hey guys.

Recently I've been seeing this HB9. We do the same course at uni and I've now sort of reached the point where I have to get working and can't go out gaming like I could back in the day!

I enjoy her company and she ALWAYS wants to hang out (we were casual friends before and she was part of my social circle but she always wants to spend time alone). And we flirt a lot. She says I'm the 'coolest guy she knows' and 'I make her so happy' but after every date she offers her cheek. Problem is Im in a wheelchair so I am too low to just seize the kiss.

All this would make me think I should give up the ghost except I know she tells all her friends (and our mutual friends) about me,and last time we were out some guy tried to kiss her and she pushed him away and started apologising in my arms. Finally I text her on new year telling her to save her NY kiss till we were back, she text back a day later a message about what she was up to and finished it xxx kiss xxx.

She's Greek, so I wonder if there is a cultural thing going on. But in truth if I like the girl I struggle to close. K - close 70% in club, but shit at slow seduction. Any idea how I can play this to work out what the score is?

Thanks guys (in advance)!

Surprisingly, I can help here.

My cousin has cerebral palsy and I go out with him a lot when I'm at home and he struggles to grab the kiss sometimes, so I taught him to do something - get the girl to your level. What I mean is, when you're getting close to the clothes, pat your legs to get her to sit on your lap (I'm presuming that this is possible for you too), and then see how she sits. If she puts her arms around you for example, it's good.
Then, when you're closer you have the opportunity to seize from there.

Seems to me mate that she's either very interested but worried about making a move, or she's keeping you on a hook. Sounds like you need to find out which. Go for mate.

Cheers mate. You are right, it is one or two of those options, its just knowing which one! And thanks for the lap tip...I've done it before but only in a club situation so I need to bear it in mind a lot more.