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Default Some thoughts on online dating and on game - 19-05-2009, 04:15 PM

I joined a free dating site when I was at work.
I treated it as training and a chance to meet up with girls without gaming in field (most of my male friends are either taken or hopeless with women)

I got few responses but i'm not bad looking, not being big headed just being honest, so I think that helped.

At first I was a bit rubbish because I wasn't convinced by PUA techniques.
So I thought I would be "myself". This meant doing all the things that normal guys did and it got me a few dates but they weren't the best.

I met this really hot German girl i'd say a 8-9 by an artist, cultured etc but I didn't use any game just asked her all the stock questions and never heard from her again.

From then I used some David D stuff cocky funny etc changed my profile to sound less normal and needy but not too over the top and then they were all contacting me and I got pickier about who I sent messages to.

The cocky funny really helped, although I was taking advice from someone I actually found I was actually truly being myself because I wasn't worrying that I would offend them.

I was joking around, making up stupid names for them and concocting stories, which when I think about it is how I got a pretty hot ex girlfriend when I was drunk and didn't care.

So I realised that If I just talk the usual random crap I talk then if they like it then we'd get on if not they were not for me.
I got some really crazy random conversations out of doing that.

I met up with one girl who looked a lot better on the photos and she wasn't 'average' size like she said, I had a laugh with her used it as practice but there was no way I was doing anything else but I got so many IOIs, I was the one who left and really hammered home that the less needy you are the better your chances are.

This happened again with a better looking girl but she was a bit weird.
She ate Mcdonalds all the time because she lived above one and couldn't cook anything, but she was really slim though!

After I went to hug her but she tried to move her head to kiss me but I dodged, she still messages me even now.

There was one girl (pretty hot 8-9) who I took the piss out of because she put she was scared of peagons, so I said something along the lines of "are they like vegens but they don't eat any peas?" but after talking to her for a few messages it turn out she was Colombian. I probably wouldn't have taken the piss so much if I had realised if she was foreign.

Goes to show you can get away with more than you think.

But I have deep reservations about online dating as I think it is actually pretty hard to get anywhere especially if you are new to the game and haven't been out sarging because there is a lot of pressure on the meeting and you have to live up to all the messages.
There is also the possibility that she could be different in real life, in terms of looks and personality.

So I could meet up with this girl I've been calling an old woman because I said she could be lying it's the internet Or if the Manchester guys are going out this Friday I could say I can't and go sarging if they want me along?
I think cancelling will make me seem less needy too
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Default 19-05-2009, 04:17 PM

Oh peagons were Pigeons if anyone's wondering
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Default 19-05-2009, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski View Post
Sack the internet as a place to get girls. It's seriously un-cool.
Peace
And of course that's a matter of opinion,


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Default 19-05-2009, 09:44 PM

Haha , awww sheet here we go again ! There are divided opinions on this , using the Internet to meet and unsocially weasel your way in with them is for the lacking and socially poor . Others however feel this is a cool sociable way to flirt . Either way , make ur own mind up . The warm glow of the bar light and the sounds of ur friends laughing around u ... Or the glare of the computer screen as u wonder if this one might 'arrange a meet' .
Put that in your pipe and smoke dem apples B-)
In all seriousness , do it if u want bud
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Default 19-05-2009, 09:59 PM

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Haha , awww sheet here we go again ! There are divided opinions on this , using the Internet to meet and unsocially weasel your way in with them is for the lacking and socially poor . Others however feel this is a cool sociable way to flirt . Either way , make ur own mind up . The warm glow of the bar light and the sounds of ur friends laughing around u ... Or the glare of the computer screen as u wonder if this one might 'arrange a meet' .
Put that in your pipe and smoke dem apples B-)
In all seriousness , do it if u want bud
Hahahahahahahaha.....! Was waiting for you to come out of your musical chair! LOL!! Never disagreed with you my awesome brother!
Drove past your pad today and thought of dropping by. But was in a rush to get home...!


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Default 19-05-2009, 10:54 PM

Haha I've opened a can of worms!

I did say in my post I had deep reservations about online dating, I've been using it as training really to see what works in messages but I guess it's a totally different from meeting in field.
I think it's helped me realise and practice a few things, time to move on though I think.

I'm still gonna meet the Colombian though, I seem to have developed a thing for foreign girls!
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Default 20-05-2009, 09:11 PM

Ok I thought i'd meet up with one more girl but she was pretty boring.

BUT! This is a big but!

The women at the bar (noho) when I walked up smiled and said "do you remember me?" (she was seriously a 10! reminded me a bit of the presenter Alexa Chung) I said something along the lines of "maybe i'm not sure", anyway it turned out she got the wrong guy but she looked pretty embarassed about it.
I tried not to look over to the bar much but i'm sure she caught me looking a few times, I should really have not altogether.

When I was leaving I went up to the bar and asked her who she was (shit I can't actually remember what it was maratha or something along those lines) anyway I said "i'm matt" i'm not but that was who she thought I was but I did it with a cheeky grin she smiled and I walked out with this other random date girl (who I don't think was too chuffed with me but I didn't care)

So I was thinking if I ever go in there again I can neg her loads and say i'm Matt, say this Matt must be a good looking guy if he looks like me lucky bastard etc, basically riff off it with a cheeky grin on my face.

Do you guys think this would work? Any thoughts on this situation?
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