so then whats the point in direct, isnt it just a hit & hope?

attraction is not just based on looks, it could be image, manner lots of stuff

be direct if it makes life easy for u but feel free to soften the blow...

call it what u like

its whatever works for u, in a way thats authentic for u, and in a way that ur happy with after critical thought on the matter.

fuck the puritanical bullshit and the attempts at creating dichotomies, direct/indirect routines/natural..alot of it is just semantics, these categories are by no means strict. the categories overlap, they are far from mutually exclusive. those who go on like they are clearly havent thought this shit through.

hi kowalski!

Sure, but it takes time to convey these things. I don't think a HB is just going to jump in the sack with an average Joe because he has nice shoes, stands with his feet shoulder width apart, and uses a direct approach.

i think he was hi'ing you coz he expected u to jump on his post

u call that a definition, its totally lacking. its got far too many variables to provide any sort of real full meaning to such a grey concept.

I went direct because I got the feeling she liked me, and being confident can help create and build attraction.

It wasn't her first impression of me.

I disagree about she hears that a lot, what most guys do when their after a hotti, is they just start talking to her, like trying to get to know her, guys with more confidence normally flirt while trying to get to know her.

To say what i said i bet is actually rare.

naa blad, he got me...was callin his ass out!

luv u k

x

oh really....k ur definition is far to narrow to provide any sort of full meaning...its lacking, it accounts for no subtleties whatsoever...its simply not fit for purpose

*sits eating popcorn*