I see what you mean Morgan, and im shockingly horrible at text game as well :') but wouldnt that just be sub concious?? I mean, you'd automatically carry on a conversation in your kindof style.... Right?

The reason you would start the conversation with something that relates to her is because it comes across the only reason you are texting her is because something you saw reminded you of her, NOT because you WANTED to try and create a conversation for the sake of it.

But i cant keep using the same thing.... And i shouldt use that cheesy shit like oh i saw a rose and it reminded me of you <3 lol... What would be another thing to say?

Unless she has a fetish for roses then I wouldn't suggest using that no. Just make funny shit up. We had protests happening next to my work the other week. So I sent a text to one girl saying "I've just watched an angry student run into Vodafone's door shutters. Highlight of my day right there. Could of sworn I saw you amongst the protesters...She was holding a banner saying "Don't make me sell my body for monies again!! Respect..."

By saying that im using something thats happening within my day. In a sense it's telling her how my day is going and prompts her to tell me how her day is in some cases. All in all my replies are designed to get a response without asking a question...

So actually, its pretty logical when you think about it .... How should i go about asking her to come to a party. Normally im just like "Hey, im going tho this party, do you wanna come?" Or, would it be a better idea to say it off of a sexual reference if you know what i mean?

Tis indeed pretty logical. Once you practice and start doing it more it becomes second nature. If it works for you like it has for me then you'll be golden in no time. In regards to asking her to the party what you suggested is fine. You could be a little cheeky and say something like "Hey, im hitting up this party on Saturday (Or whatever day it is), I think you should come as my trophy?" Or you could even flip it and say "Hey, im hitting up this party on Saturday, come along and I could be your trophy?"

At the end of the day dude, you've been talking to her. Gauge how the comfort between the two of you is and if you could get away with cheeky/cocky without coming across as a tard or being offensive...

In my experience, because I suck at text game, the best thing you can do to improve texts is make a massively amazing impression when you saw her last. That way she text games you.

Calibration is key. En1gma is totally right that texts like that will work, but if you've never teased her before it'll freak her out. So think about how you'd ask her to come to a party if you just ran into each other in the street, maybe that'll help.

I am curious about this.

I have been texting a girl who has said she is happy to go for a drink, I play the cocky funny role and she has even commented on how cheeky I am...

She has just split with her ex and told me when she is in work and I should stop by and say hi and I have not gone in to play the DHV!

Should I leave it untill she notices I have not text her to get her working a bit, or send something cheeky and get a date sorted for a drink...

I get the impression she's still thinking of her short term ex alot so I need to swing attention my way more than get a date...

All opinions welcome...I am good with girls but I have found I look into things to much since reading the game, lol

Higher Value, you don't wanna go snooping round her work. Do you have nothing better to do? Will be the impression.

Leave her to it at work then randomly text her out of the blue with a story that some how something in your day happened which relates to why you were reminded about her.