Location: Born in Manchester but live in Loughborough
Im busy?? -
08-12-2010, 11:31 PM
Yo fellas, been a while!
Met some smoking hot postgrad blondie the last night at my ball. I was in an ace mood so i was bouncing around all over the place chatting to everyone. Give her some attention but not really focussing on her. bump into her throughout the night tho and there's some good flirting going on. Later on meet her at the bar, then i did something i almost never do these days and bought her a drink...goes down pretty well. She asks me to sit down with her in the corner etc. Bit of kissing as i walk her to her taxi at the end of the night, (she grabs my hand btw when we walk there).
Number closed too, and we agree we should meet up... i suggest a meet up date the next day in a text: shes away in cardiff - fair fucks. "what you up2 wednesday then?" - lectures, essay and training (shes a race walker btw - and yes ive rinsed her about it!)...
"Really sorry im dead busy atm!" she says....Dont want to ask her again for fear of sounding desperate. I think im pretty fucking good with girls on dates and in person. Text game pisses me off tho....Never quite know how to play it when they bring up the "im busy" shit? She knows i want to meet up with her and she attracted to me. Not sure how to proceed tbh tho?
tell her your going to blah de blah and shes coming or should come along, make your point dominant and don't give her the option that makes it sound like you are bothered if she says yes or no.
Phone her a couple times and talk to her like a real person. When the conversation is on a high point ask her to meet up when YOU are free. Good luck mate.
I keep wondering if it is better to call or text. Actually, I've had a few flakes, to say the least, in Palermo and the next time I see them around they always come out with the same, "I had no credit," excuse. I just feel that calling might put them under more pressure but perhaps that's a good thing. It certainly takes more balls to call, there's no doubt in that. What's the best thing to do??