Guys...

Ive been off sick this week with a savage chest affection, so have been holed up i bed with nothing to do...(and by the way, my chest affection was soley caused by burning the candle of both ends, of going out gaming until 2am then getting up at 0530am to do 12 hour shifts...you cant do both, and damn have i learned my lesson, been sick a week and ive only been in my new job 2 months)



Anyways it struck me one day this week whilst dosed up on antibiotics and painkillers...

Approach Anxiety... we all get it. as mystery says "i fear the approach" and we all know the reasons why wether it maybe evoultional or pshychoigial...

We also know women "dont get AA" but they get LMR.... so the 2 balance out...

Now.... it got me thinking... in that case... what about gays and lesbians...????

From my experience of having lots of gay cabin crew friends, one of their gambits when trying talking to me to try and and convert me, "is theres no fucking around and games when flirting, its either on or off in pink land...."

Your thoughts gents ?????

yeah i remember the gay guy... it was when i had just started, so it was a bit above my learning at the time...

Gay people have no need for the game. They are all guys. They just fuck each other whenever they want. They also live longer because they are less stressed about life.

I was just gonna say 'What makes you think girls dont get AA?'

Maybe not drunk party slags but there are girls who get intimidated when they see a high value man, just like men do when there's a high value woman

I believe that this is why when you approach direct and the woman lights up, she is more relieved than anything coz you have taken the burden off of her.

Also, LMR is usually the result of you not being totally congruent. Whenever i've not give a fuck and put my personality on the line there is NO LMR. When i have used routines, lines etc that i didn't myself come up with, there has usually been LMR.

sure they get nervous... I can go for that....when I was dealing working in the private jet business, I dealt with some of the worlds most powerfull "high value" people in the world...and was nervous and sometimes petified...but that was nerves not aa...

surely 2 different things ????

And Im guessing im a conman then....but being a conman its getting me laid/dates/K-closes

I wasnt getting any of that this time last year, so at this moment of being new to the game, being conman is doing me ok, fake it until you make it i guess

I think his name was blanca or something?