Hey there,

I am new to this page and this is my first post.

I am going to get right to the point and I would like to get some feedback from this situation I am in.

I have been on three different Tinder dates within a month, with three different girls and the dates went great in my opinon. Had good chemestry from the strart, made out a couple of times during the dates with all three of them, and it felt great.
Two of the girls came home with me for some drinks, some kisses and some good conversation. I did not have sex with any of them.

The problem is that I have tried to set up a second date with all three of them, but no luck. They are saying that they are busy and dont have time to meet me, etc. (typical bullshit).

I dont understand this because if some of the girls didnt like me, they would not have made out with me, right?
And since this is happening three times on a row in a month, I must have a huge blackspot somewhere.

Have anyone been in a similar situation? What the hell is happening?

I should also mention I was on a date some month ago with this girl. And on the second date we had sex at my place. And same thing happends there. She would not meet me again.

If it matters, I am 31 years old and have a stable job and a stabil life.

Appreciating the feedback.

Hi

How much of a connection/rapport/trust did you establish with them, as opposed to pumping their emotions?

Z

Zed, all of them kissed him, three of them came home with him and one of them fucked him. What are you talking about connection, rapport and trust for? That’s some full on PUA bullshit right there. If there’s a lack of connection, rapport and trust, those people generally aren’t kissing you and coming home with you and fucking you. It’s not that.

FYI: connection, rapport and trust are feelings aka emotions.

HankMoody, we don’t know why. There isn’t enough information to work with in your post. Give us more. It is a small sample size and each event might have no connection whatsoever to the others. Why do you think it is?


Peace,

kowalski

Hey Mate
Do you still need some feedback on this post? I am a mentor in the community so I would love to shine some light on this

Can you mentor me please and what do you charge?

Yeah sure mate. Some feedback is always welcome.