Tbh I don't get this either. plz help.

I'd advise against complaining about these girls' boyfriends. For one if there's no vibe and they just see you as a friend they'll probably find this jarring and annoying. This actually happened recently where a male friend of a girl I started dating recently texted her some shit like "Hope things go good with Stein, and if they don't maybe you could date me instead ". I lolled. She was pissed at him though.

On the other side, if there is chemistry and you knowingly spoil a relationship or are complicit in a girl cheating just because you want to get laid, it's kind of a scummy move imo. Do what you want in that case I guess but I wouldn't want to know you.

I'd say the most positive approach to this is to actually be these people's friend and try to set up ways to expand your circle from there in a way where they actually bring other girls in. Girls generally have other girl friends, and provided you're chill and can be attractive girls often jump at the opportunity to set you up.

This isn't some shit you do with an obvious agenda or get thirsty about, btw. Don't ask to get set up obviously. You play a longer game and it organically happens. This is why most PUA people shit on this kind of thing in favour of cold approach. Their perspective lacks long term depth. If you actively cultivate this kind of thing while trying to improve yourself too it's a v good option.

Doing game this way actually is way easier than cold approaching because it's super positive, anti-creepy (because it's what normal high-status people do rather than lust after people's girlfriends or cold approach) and stacks the deck in your favor. It's the majority of how I run my game now.

So for example, with the people from running set up an evening out or something. Drinks, food, a house party, any shit like that. Then tell them to bring a couple of friends. Doing that expands your options and keeping doing stuff like this in good faith will basically do game for you. Raises your clout, preselection, all that shit's already in the bag.

Might actually write more in depth about this soon, v useful imo.

Ok, ok!


Marathons and training for them is long term commitment, enduring tough times, showing up on the night, etc., personality expression. Plus, it appears these chicks are pretty and are interesting to talk to and all that because you are interested in them. Of course they all got bfs. Lots of boys are queueing up for them and once in a relationship they have that long term, endurance mindset.

Enjoy your hobbie and maybe a girl will pop up there one time, though why anyone would want to share a physical hobby with a girlfriend I don’t know.

Most young girls aren’t in long term committed relationships. Everyone you are meeting is and everyone you are meeting runs marathons.

There are other social situations where single girls are in abundance.


Peace,

kowalski

just tell your feeiling and think how to solve the problem
just do not get mad or what

Go for >200m track athletes for fastest meet-lay ratios, it's science. Less endurance, less commitment.