I noticed recently that reading all these pua books and practicing routines was having an adverse effect on me, although It has won me over lots of girls and my sex life is good I still feel it has all been in vein because its not me they have been going for but a charecter I built up from using all these routines. From today im changing my approach and just going for it

stop using routines... ur not a clown or jester. just have fun, if they like u they do if not then tough.... just dont be a pudding

No one else would have built up the same character, because by definition you have built it up yourself. Hence that person is you. If you do not like who that person is, change it, if you do, accept it.

Be the best you you can be.... whatever that means.