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-SUPERSTAR- 03-11-2010 02:41 PM

Anyone ever used match.com?
 
with success? Lemme know your reviews/stories.

cheers

-superstar-

tebbs 03-11-2010 02:58 PM

this old chesnut...

its shit, as is, plenty of fish and mysinglefriend.ive tried them all, thats what led me to pickup after wasting hours and hours it was like trying to shoot fish in a barrel

dont waste your time and money on it, get out there and meet people face to face and find real people, not these ego grabbing dics on internet dating sites

your find 2 types of chicks on dating sites...

a. low self esteem fattys who never get hit on in bars/clubs, thats why they are on it
b. girls who just love the getting 10 emails a day self asteem boost, they are the 20% that only want 6ft 6 doctors, lawyers, to show off to their friends (who couldnt give a fuck anyways) and they are the ones you dont want

and for those reasons, thats why the girls are single/messed up and not getting hit on and/or in relationships

after working and being best pals with virgin atlantic air hostesses for 10 years ( the most messed up chicks you will ever meet) they are all on match.com and i wouldnt go near that type of chick...they would only email back millionaires and model looking guys (pedal stooling) and would then wonder why they got messed around..

(they also did this on flights too in upper class by the way) and they are 20% of chicks you dont want

-SUPERSTAR- 03-11-2010 03:12 PM

Thanks for the reply tebbs.

tebbs 03-11-2010 03:15 PM

no worries mate

sorry its negative dude but its shit..

Phenom 03-11-2010 03:51 PM

I have used match and plenty of fish.

Tebbs is half right. There are some seriously fugly girls on there that have never been laid. Just dont talk to these, and ignore their emails if they contact you. There are also some girls who have self esteem issues and wont talk to you unless your George Clooney. These are easy to spot as they have a ton of photos of themselves looking good with very little in the way of a profile description.

Having said that there are some cool girls on there too. I have met up with about 5 girls from dating sites and of those 5 iv shagged 3. All were attractive and had stable personalities.

I see dating sites as a cool way to potentially expand your social circle and meet new people. I think too many people expect too much from dating sites. I think this is especially true when they have paid for the service, you have already but value and investment on something, so you expect something back, which you may not get. For this reason i would advise against something like match.com where you have to pay a subscription. Plenty of fish is free however so i dont see why theres a problem in setting an account up on there. Just go in there with the attitude that if you meet someone then thats cool, and if not then thats cool too, you've made no investment other than the few minutes it took to set up your account.

One thing i dont like with dating sites is online interaction is not nearly as good as live interaction. Your also likely to get screened to fuck so if you are one inch too short or look the tiniest bit overweight in your photos or have the wrong eye or hair colour you will get blown out. To avoid this try and make your profile as good as it can be. Ask close friends which photos they think are the best ones of you. When you write your description, be passionate about the stuff your interested in, show girls you have tons going on in your life and tell them about your good qualities.

I definitley dont view dating sites as a bad thing and would recommend people to try them. Just done pay for the privilege cos theres tons of free ones out there.



Going out and talking to girls in clubs, pubs or wherever the hell you like is your meat and potatoes. Dating sites are the gravy.

-SUPERSTAR- 03-11-2010 04:31 PM

Hi phenom thanks for your reply also. I agree that there will always be girls that just feed off their inbox for an ego boost without ever replying to a single one (usually ones with free account), this is particularly true on most social network sites like faceparty (worst site ever made). As far as I'm told I'm blessed with good genetics so lucky enough to get by the screening process based on looks. I have already received quite a few emails (bar the ugly ones) within a week of setting up a free account, these would be girls who have made an investment of paying for an account (otherwise they can't send emails) which would rule them out as one of the low self esteem types - hence I'm considering upgrading to reply to them. That's where your opinions come in before making a £30 investment on a month subscription.
p.s I have no intention of using online dating as a replacement to game, just a supplement I'm curious to try out.

cheers
-superstar-

face 03-11-2010 05:04 PM

i'd be very carefull about any messages recieved on match.com before you have signed up. word on the street is the greedy people that run the site have fake profiles that email you getting you to sign up or when your subscriprion has run out.

can not confirm this having never used the site just what i have heard.

tebbs 03-11-2010 07:07 PM

ill stick to the airplanes...no wonder I got a D in english...

sapphire 06-11-2010 01:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by face (Post 29252)
i'd be very carefull about any messages recieved on match.com before you have signed up. word on the street is the greedy people that run the site have fake profiles that email you getting you to sign up or when your subscriprion has run out.

can not confirm this having never used the site just what i have heard.

I don't think the major sites like match need to resort to that sort of thing. What they actually do is dish out a lot of free/very cheap introductory offers to women because women are much less pre disposed to pay for these sort of services than men and so this is the only way they can keep the number anywhere close to 50/50.

For someone fairly ahem .. mature :cool: like me the paid for dating sites are give a good yield since since they are very popular with 30s/40s professional women who have got bored of being hit on a million times a night in bars by drunk dead beats (thats you lot :D). Decent looking girls in their 20's are a comparative rarity though.

If your relatively well off (like me) or can fake it fairly well then the various "sugar daddie"/"millionaire" sites are bursting with screamingly hot totty (yes I'm sorry the whole hot-women-dont-care-about-money thing is largely PUA bullshit as 10 mins on one of these sites will clearly demonstrate ...)

sapphireblue 06-11-2010 02:11 PM

wow thought it was me who posted that last message for a minute

tebbs 06-11-2010 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sapphire (Post 29374)

For someone fairly ahem .. mature :cool: like me the paid for dating sites are give a good yield since since they are very popular with 30s/40s professional women who have got bored of being hit on a million times a night in bars by drunk dead beats (thats you lot :D). Decent looking girls in their 20's are a comparative rarity though.

I disagree, sorry mate, and it comes from my experience of working with over 3000 girls aged between 19 - 50, over 12 years in the airline industry.

The ones in the 30s and 40s dont get hit on any more, they dont even go out much as the 20- 30s as most of their mates are settled down, and I feel for them it must be frustrating, ive had 30 year old air hostesses balling their eyes out to me on night flights, due to this.

Remember this is your weapon as a bloke, you can approach girls, they cant approach guys, they have to wait for guys to approach them, and it bugs the fuck out of them, trust me, i spent 10 years listening to the girls at Virgin Atlantic telling me this in the galley on night flights.

Once again, if you want a girl that is looking for a sugar daddy to pedalstool you, then expect her to be shit, Once again Ive spoken and worked with 100s... yes 100s of these types of girls at Virgin Atlantic, and in a nutshell, they are fucked up little princesses (even at 30 - 40),and you dont want that, your better than than dont be a pussy.

You also dont want the ones that dont get hit on in clubs, they have low self esteem...there has to be a reason why they are not getting hit on, once again.... Ive worked and am friends with 100s of them at Virgin,yes we do have some fattys, and non attractive ones...

For the 30 quid a month on match you could out 3 times and spend a tenner on drinking cokes and opening sets.

Once again, get off your ass, get away from the pc, stop wasting your time spending cut and pasting messahes and GET OUT and open sets.

sapphire 07-11-2010 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tebbs (Post 29378)
I disagree, sorry mate, and it comes from my experience of working with over 3000 girls aged between 19 - 50, over 12 years in the airline industry.

The ones in the 30s and 40s dont get hit on any more, they dont even go out much as the 20- 30s as most of their mates are settled down, and I feel for them it must be frustrating, ive had 30 year old air hostesses balling their eyes out to me on night flights, due to this.

Its OK your allowed to disagree Im not going to :2guns: you :D

Was just pointing out that such sites are better if your looking for mid-30's plus women in particular than for women in their 20's. Cant really speak for what motivated cabin crew girls I think I've only ever met one socially in my whole life, so can only comment on the motivations of the kind I do meet i.e. executives, business women etc.

tebbs 07-11-2010 04:17 PM

when there was 3000 of them you had every type of girl, from ditsy and dumb to the motivated, very well educated and clever (not all cabin crew are dumb, the majority are, but not all)

And ll the ones however who where on dating sites where rubbish.

Trust me 5 flights a month for 10 years, with 14 - 18 different hostesses on each trip.. the clever ones on the forums can do the maths... its alot and as previously mentioned a few months ago, on a separate post. Id say 80% of the girls could quite happily bonk a millionaire on a Las Vegas trip thinking he would buy them a Lamborgini.

Then the next week on New York trip they would be in "a happy loving relationship" with their boyfriend who they would talk constantly about for 7 hours over to NY and 7 Hours back again.

Then for some strange reason this mystical boyfriend would then disapear the following month on another Vegas/LA or boozy caribean trip...

Now whoever said emotional cancels out logic...... and whoever said girls makeup boyfriends to make themselves feel better.

These are the same girls on dating websites...

Pedal stoolers and nutters.

Rebus 07-11-2010 04:29 PM

tebbs has shagged over 3000 girls!


...aged between 19 - 50!


get in there mate!!!!!

LOL!

(edit: must stop skim-reading)

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I google'd "pedalstool". Somebody had to do it.


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