Im having sort of having tweaking nickles with my game at the moment.

If you meet the boys on here ive been sarging with, they will tell you im a very confident, guy, will approach anything and normally get a good recpetion from the sets as ive bundles of intresting gambits from my days of traveling the world,working with private jets and my interests /hobbies,salsa dancing,pilots license,blah blah blah, and the guys have also said I have a great vibe about me..

Ive been gaming for 7 months now, and looking back on the 7 months, i believe ive come a long way, this time last year i would of never seen myself the way i do now, my friends/family/ and old work collegues, also keep telling me "ive transformed"

Now this is all and well, however what is getting me a bit at the moment, Ill will go our sarging every week, which i find amazingly exiciting, i love it!!! but also mentally exhusting (for some reason unknown my head is spinning/racing when i get in the door) I will get what i think at the time are "solid number closes" this weekend was 6 and of the 6 numbers, 5 have flaked, and the 6th gave me 10 digits not 11 (lesson learned there to quickly check the digits when i close)

Now even a month ago I wouldnt of done 6 number closes in one night, so im gratefull for my improvement, however my week goes like this at the moment..

Fri / Saturday --- good times feel great go out sarging... always take my camera, and will get about 5 number closes...and some amazing pictures..

Sunday --- feel exhusted, but nervous as i want to ring / txt the numbers and will then ring on the Sunday night... (the flakes then happen) get pissed off and somewhat dejected

Monday --- feel shit and pissed off that im getting a high flake rate (read up on notes, makes notes on how to improve)

Tuesday --- As above feel shit, keep looking at phone.. no txt backs.. pissed off..((read up on notes, makes notes on how to improve)

Weds --- Start txting the pua's mates to see whos out at weekend (puas also remind me they didnt get flakes and they are arranging days 2s... gets me down a bit )

Thursday --- start getting exicted about friday/saturday sarges,

Friday --- Start sarge weekend...

So What im basically saying is at the moment i feel my life is a rollar coaster of excitement, emotion, rejection and frustration..

Now is this a good thing??

The crazy thing...i know im getting better and better each week....

also add to the above, ive just moved to a new area, new job, new social circle... etc etc... my head is racing and pounding atm...

if anyone has thoughts, or even went though the same thing, ive love to hear your thoughts

I had this happen last week. 5 number closes, 4 flakes and one abusive message from a boyfriend. Tbh, my head felt fried when I went out.
I was confident and had good responses from sets, but the tenseness was still there, so I would say I wasn't relaxed when I was closing.
When I'm not relaxed I don't connect very well, the teasing always goes well, but I go through all the stages fast. Too fast.
Which may be the same problem you're having at the moment. Especially if you're getting excited about it, *you* can have a really good time, but it can cloud your judgement.
I reckon you should take a week off sarging and go and do something different. In fact don't even think about sarging. See the sights of your new city or something, do some shopping, etc. Should help you to relax into the environment.

yes mate... ive also thought im might be going though the stages too quick, and need to relax more, now i know i can get the number..

so thanks both of you... im glad im not the only one going though the crazy frustration peroid... it must be like the menapause !!!

I find that the more comfort/rapport/sexual tension you had in set the less likely the flake happens.

your right loke, its just the practice practice thing... and the frustration which gets me

im dreading phils post though im sue he will tell me im being a wusey

i love that thanks mate, and its this time of week I get all excited again about the weekend... crazy times...

theres so many conflicting bits of advice about when to txt or ring them, but im going to try your advice this weekend and see what happens....

Don't go for the number close. Got for the f close. Get in set with her for 20 minutes until she says something like: after party at my house! Stay in set for hours (if required) until you are parting in her house!

Only get the number close if logistics are inconvenient. If they're comfortable with you then I've found it doesn't really matter if you ring or text.

Personally I prefer text, as it doesn't require them to invest on their part, and they can reply any time. You could be ringing at a bad time!
I read this the other day, worked a treat: http://www.rsdnation.com/ryan®/blog/...making-it-easy