so ive been readin pua stuff for bout a year, i have a collected alot of knowledge but i have only recently began runnin material and tryin it out properly. Most of what i read is designed for guys who arent that good looking, therefore have lower self confidence talkin to girls therefore get fewer girls.. so for example im learning all about negs and being cocky and funny and confident, if i say to a girl yea ano cos im jus that dam good lookin, and im not its funny and cool, but cos i actually am good lookin i come off as a dick. Girls are attracted to my appearance but im expectin them to come over to me for some weird reason. they dont cos they presume cos of my looks i wudnt want them and am not appraching them becasue of that. when i do talk to a girl im really friendly to try and make them feel less intimated, but it comes off as too friendly and theres no sexual tension. I tryin to recognise my problems but the major one is that im 19 nearly 20 and still a virgin.. its not that i cant get a girl but cos my fukin unconscious mind views myself as being attracive and good looking that i shudnt settle for an average girl. which leaves me with the hbs but cos of my lack of sexual experience, it shows they can sense it and it means im unable to get them. i'm in limbo at the moment. so basically what im askin is can i compliment a girl, sayin your gorgeous or whatever at the start of a conversation cos my value is already quite high cos she noticed me already, or is that jus givin away power and makin givin me less value?
and shud i jus get an average girl and sleep with her? it doesnt feel right but it may help me get the girl that is..

the pua stuff has made me overthink too much, i acutally pulled more girls before i knew anythin! cos i didnt overanalyse what i was about to do or say, i need to somehow get out of this limbo im in and learn how to get my head right.

hey i think that you should sleep with an average girl first because you may be confident in your looks but when it comes to crunch time and you never had sex befare its better to be with an average girl that you wont feel so concious about having sex and doing wrong with because you cant expect to be great in bed first time and you can compement girls anytime everyone likes to be complemented ive even got girls number on the street by going straight up to them and saying excuse me sorry can i have your number and got it and it goes against everything that supposed to happen but i think the material is good as i did just get lucky and i am really good looking but i have been rejected so this is needed.

dood !
i was having the same sort of problem as you
im over looking all situations and thinking about what can go wrong instead of what could go right !
i found if you over look something and find yourself only focusing on the nagitives its will be a fuck up
but consontrate on the positive out comes your will have a positive out come !!!

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that is quality. lol i believe thats what frame of mind all pua's should be in!

im kinda feeling this topic too. where's the best place to find rsd material?