One of the things I have heard in the SC is that to be attractive to a girl you need to be interesting and to be more interesting you need to have a lifestyle that is interesting.

It made me think about whether lifestyle change was important or needed, as most people probably have an aspects of their lives that are interesting to some people , and perhaps anything can seem interesting if it is communicated in the right way.

So I was wondering if lifestyle change is really necessary or whether its just a matter of communicating better what you've already got or perhaps it is a mixture of both?

I was also wondering if people here have made any changes to their lifestyle to seem more attractive to women and what they have done to change it?

Is the key to being more interesting really being just more unique?

I was thinking of perhaps taking up a few new hobbies and travelling more; not expensive holidays but to places in UK. But doing this would cost time and money , and I am wondering if its worth the time and the money.

A lot of PUA's say personality is the most important thing , so I wonder if I am exaggerating the importance of lifestyle. But one thing that sprang to mind is , that if you are doing interesting things you will probably meet interesting people , so lifestyle change may bring greater opportunities to meet attractive women.

Advise will be appreciated.

Interesting = Being the person who does stuff, not the person who talks about doing stuff.

I believe that a balanced life style is best,I think allso though you should have/do something that defines you.(yoga for me) And for me personaly, doing only pua is not
a strong enough identity.IMO you should always have something better in your life than
just going sarging.

Having the lifestyle that other people only dream of is within reach of everyone. Turn off the TV, turn your computer games off. Get out of the house, go do interesting things as often as you possibly can. It does not even need to cost a fortune. Talk to people, make new friends be the guy others come to for fun.

Having a great lifestyle, gives you an interesting personality because you are influenced and experience a lot of things and it also gives you amazing conversation topics.

-Loke

Very true, simple but insightful.

Very true, finding the balance is important but not always easy. Has your yoga done a lot to help you? I was reading somewhere that yoga can improve your sex life.

Yes , I have also found that true experiences are better to talk about than rountines and gimmicks. Not that I don't use them lol.

Have a butcher's at this mate:

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/seduction-...one-chode.html

I initialy started yoga because I simply realised that i didnt really have any female friends
and I figured Yoga would be a great way to do that.Iv been doing yoga for about 4 years now because I actualy love doing it with or without people.The biggest thing Iv learned about women is that even though they are completely different to guys,they are just as
fucked up and nerotic as we are.I always had the idea that any decent looking girl
are perfect little flowers.They fart,talk smack and fuck around just as much as we do.
Im sure for a lot of guys this is hardly news but for me it totaly blew my ideas of what women are about.
PS:Yoga doesent improve your sex life,it creates you a sex life

I'm quite tempted to start yoga, its pretty big in my gym, and virtually the whole class is female!

How good is it for stretching your muscles out on your non-training days?