So... ive been textin a 9.

asked her before.. ARE YOU OUT ON THE WEEKEND

HER: yep, in newz bar look out for a group of bunnies and u will find me
ME: WOW, Bunnies, how original, i imagine everoyone will be kicking themselves
HER: No its not original- no need to be sarcastic it my cousin choice
ME: OOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooo(in a high pitch voice) did i decect a snap from you then u feisty mare. i was teasing. touchy touchy

to which no reply. now to me... this is not a fail... this has saved me from a date with someone who DOES NOT GET ME AT ALL... if she takes offence at that... there would have been a fight, however poes law may also have played its part.

Arent you supposed to say "I wanna fuck you". Didnt think you like negging

no its not that i dont like negging... i always neg, all the time... but not coz i wanna lower her value, coz i love the banter of takin the piss... negging for some clinical pua purpous is daft, infact doing anything PU isnt real at all. plus i sent her a message 2 days after about 6 texts sayin 'why dont you just come round here an let me fuck you" to which she didnt she was a little shocked. i think she is perhaps a little uptight, not my type

u cant just keep sayin it lol... dont work like tha, then its called begging ha

then no i dont neg. why would i wanna lower anyones value... i fuckin love girl who value themselves. i just like them to know im not scared to give them shit no matter what they look like

There's nothing wrong with taking the piss out of a girl. That's not negging, you're just showing her you don't need her validation.

You know something I find blasts my attraction with girls? I tell them to fuck off.

I mean, I don't suddenly come out with it. Its not like:

CO: So yeah, travelling around China was great, wonderful place.
HB: I'd love to do it, it sounds amazing.
CO: It really is, just a fascinating country. By the way, fuck off.
HB: Er... What?

...Not like that. I mean if a girl says something I want to call her out on, I'll readily use the words 'fuck off'. I'll tool her by telling her to fuck off as part of general banter. Not because its a line - I just broadly tell people to fuck off anyway!

As far as I'm concerned it isn't a neg. It just tells the girl I'm not gonna bother being all nice and polite with her, and I'll happily challenge her in no uncertain terms if I think she's talking bollocks. I won't say to her 'I don't quite agree with you' or anything. I'll just say 'Fuck off'.

I wouldn't bother knowingly trying to neg a girl.

LOL shit thats where ive been goin wrong.

i tell everyone to fuck off too... just in general speak.

im with u on that post like

ahhhhh carmada... u big girl... i am borderline insulting anyway. plus she text me back anyway all kisses, hugs n smiles...

just coz ur goin out as a playboy bunny aswell

Sub-standard banter from you = ignored by her

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actually, if u read on, she did text back. im supposed to be meetin her out later....

but again, im not actually that assed either way coz she is just a girl after all.

and what is sub standard banter... are you expected with every text or communication to spit out gems.

mad_fer_it you should write a book mate