so after last weeks debackle of being called a cunt and a loser by not buying girls drinks and negging (what have you got going for yourself apart from your looks)

ive spent the week re-evualting my approaches and game, as the only way to get better is by trial and error, and considering where I was 6 months ago, im pleased with my progress...so far

Now Over the last 6 months ive tried all different types of approaches/methods, to see what works and what doesnt...trust me if its written down or on a its on a dvd, Ive tried it....

But...... theres one, and just one ive not tried..... and its Mysterys favourite, and you need balls for it

"If I wasnt gay you would so be my type..."

now I dont mind trying it... fuck it why not.. however have any of you guys tried it ? how did you transition off it? and how well did it go down ?

your opinions please gents

tebbs

why do u need balls for that??? MATE LOOK fuck what they think... My favourite is IM GONNA FUCK YOU!

or UR TITS ARE MASSIVE

or even better. Well well well whats ur name then??

cheers phil

I agree, I couldnt give a fuck what they think, but ive like to know if anyone has tried disqualifying themselves like that, and do they just think your being a dic..

yeah ive said to a girl im gay... then fucked her... doesnt matter wat u say mate... if the fancy u ITS OVER FOR THEM

dont insult neg, i've insulted every girl tonight because they've pissed me off, I didnt insult one and pulled, she's hot and was begging me to text her, maybe its because i've turned from peasant to god... (in women terms)

I disqualified myself once by saying "We're heading out, you should come! Oh, bring your boyfriend too." I figure that counts as a disqualifier .

Didn't f-close, but k-closed.

do u know i fucked up SO many interactions by all this bollocks, trying to over think it... u know if a girl actually likes you, u dont need to do any of this crap. just have fun...

...INFACT...

stop calling it negging, if it sounds funny say it... if you think ur just sayin it coz its PUA... then let it go

I kinda agree with you Phil - Kinda.

That is to say I don't really agree with negging, the idea is that you throw her a little backhanded compliment and suddenly she wants your validation... Right. Much better in my eyes is just to have good rapport with a girl. Talk to her like you would one of your friends, get a little playful banter going, have some fun with it.

Disqualifiers, well the point of those is to get the girl to lower her bitch shield long enough to make a connection. It's the difference between the direct and indirect approach. Disqualifiers do have a role, but the skill of the game is calibration, if she's biting her lip and giving you bedroom eyes then for gods sake: Don't disqualify yourself.

Out of interest Tebbs, why did they call you a loser for not buying girls drinks? My experience with refusing this has been strictly positive.

Ok - ALL I DO IS NEG... but its not coz i wanna NEG its coz im just a piss taker by nature.

second of all... i havent had a girl ask me for a drink since i was 18... u should be such like they wouldnt DARE ask you incase of offending you... if anything they should be offering to buy them for you

Yes I tried this routine when I was back in the early days of pickup. I got a huge smile, a massive thankyou, and a big hug. 5 minutes later I had her massaging my back.
Yes it works.

Negs? They ain't necessary for most girls. *Don't* insult.
Lots of teases work well and so does taking the piss. Make sure you have a huge smile on your face.