Well here's what happened

this 10 I pulled at a party has just flaked on me after our date, Im not sure what went on. We had a great time and had some good chat going back and forth and alot of snogging. Anyway I txt her today and see how shes doin I then later on say "keep your saturday free by the way, we are going to have a mental day out"

I then get a txt saying "Im really sorry, I had a lovely night last night but it brought back feelings about my ex, he is coming up soon for a couple of weeks, its just bad timing"

so I replied like "Hey, its no big deal, dont worry about it" (tryin to keep my cool and show im not bothered)

she text back like "Thanks for understanding". So I said "Its cool, maybe see you around sometime", to which she said "Yeah that would be great, pub banter sounds good".

I didnt bother replying.
Normally I would just move on, but I really want to nail this girl, she has something about her that I need to get.

So what advice do my fellow pua's have about getting back in the game?. I was thinking about texting her next week saying me and some buddies are going out and she should come along.

What would you guys advise?

I currently find myself in the same situation, had a good day 2 then arranged a day 3 but she flaked saying she was in the wrong frame of mind because her ex was on her back or something. Im planning on just ignoring her for a while and maybe getting back in touch in a week or two.

I know the responses to this will be move on to other targets, which I fully agree with and intend to do, but I cant help but let it get to me because I was very confident of getting the close!

Looks like we are in the same boat man, Im going to contact her next week about coming out, then when we are out I will sarge every hotty in the club, Iv had it before that when hard to get girls see you losing interest and hitting on other girls they will try get the attention back. So thats my game plan

Let me know how you do, Im still looking for some advice from my fellow pua's experiences

Just play it cool. Looks like the girl has not got over her ex yet. The best you can do is to leave her to her own device BUT keeping in touch is paramount if you harbour any desire to nail her. She could be your "back-burner" till her ex disapears. If they got back together, leaver her well alone, not worth the hassle. Asking her out is a good idea too as long as it doesnt become a friend zone (pub banter). Good luck..!

Yeah, I will keep a little contact. When I get her out escalation is key to ensure I keep away from the "friend" zone. I will wait a few days I think.

Any other advice on this guys?

Here is an update on the ongoing situation.

Well she came into my work on friday and asked me to go back to hers, so we did and hung out with her friends all night drinking. Since she was sharing a room we couldnt do anything but he said she was "impressed by the way i handled her going off" so I was like "no bother", she said she wanted to be fuck buddied which was fine with me, we snogged the night away and some compliments on my cock size which is always nice.

So she was meant to be coming round last night, i txted her like "Hey im busy till 9, so you want to come round half 9, 10ish?" no reply.
So after a failed phone call hours later about 9.00 when i said i was free I txted like "Have the skin wearers got you?, txt back and let me know how bad it is", no reply so i waited 2 hours and sent another one "are you still coming over?, I havent heard from you so I went ahead and made plans with someone who isnt so rude :P"

and so far I havent heard anything back, I dont know what happened to her. And Im def not sending anymore texts. Any feedback would be great. Im not sure if the txts came accross and needy or not

I'd first leave it for a bit. Obviously if she contact's you it's the best situation. If it looks like she is not going to contact you then text:

Heeyy ...... girl, How about some pub banter? I promise it'll be fun, and if it's not, then you could always climb out the toilet window!

the ..... would be something funny that you previously built rapport with.

That's what i'd try anyway
Peace out....

While she's impressed at how you handled her flakiness.... she's also set the expectation that you're going to be ok with her flakiness.

It's a fine line... you gotta not care... but you gotta make the rules too, and keep to them.

I'm guessing she's seeing her ex again more seriously... or someone else. And rather than say that, she takes the easy/safe route and just doesn't reply to you. Which is sucky and rude in my opinion.

look, every girl u meet u should be entering FRIEND territory... the ex thing wont last long... once its over it over. if u had played the mates card.. u become her GO TO GUY.

granted this isnt ideal if u want a bird, but it means u will get laid... even when he fuckin her around.. i have done it SOOO MANY TIMES.

just become the mate she has sex with and feeds her issues too... u can drop her when u want then

Yeah I invited her over to a party we ha last night, no reply. Im going to ignore her for a few weeks.

Plus I have another girl coming over today, so fuck her