So back story met this beautiful girl, amazing personality, she lives an hour away from me and cant drive, its been difficult to get time to meet her as im at uni and she's still at school (score). Anyway she added me on fb and we got talking and had about 4 dates so far, nothing more than a k close tho, havent been able to see her in about 2 weeks, ive been away and in london etc. Wont be able to see her for another 2 weeks, we only have time at the weekends to see each other and we're both busy for the next 2 weekends..

was talking to her tonight...any thoughts in general wud be good thanks


(you)
whos ur fav power ranger?
[girl]
23:33
i dont have one lol
[You]
23:33
lol :O:O
[girl]
23:33
i dont watch it lol
[You]
23:33
omg
[girl]
23:33
what =O
[You]
23:33
u never watched it?
[girl]
23:33
nope
not since i was little and cant remeber any of there names now lol
[You]
23:34
lol
thining of going as a power ranger me and all my mates
i might be the white one
he was hardcore
[girl]
23:34
lol can u get power ranger costumes?
[You]
23:34
oh aye
get almost anything
we dressed up as suicide bombers 2 years ago..
was pretty hectic tbh
bro's idea had nothing else
[girl]
23:36
omg theres a pink power rangers costume =O lol i want it
[You]
23:36
oh yea the pink power ranger was hot
[girl]
23:36
lol nice
[You]
23:36
had a bit of a crush on her wen i was youngerlol
[girl]
23:37
aww lol
[You]
23:37
u shud totally go as the pink power ranger
then we can fight crime and stuff
lol
[girl]
23:38
lol or u could just perv on me =P=P pervert lol
[You]
23:38
lol wud be hard to keep my hands off u i'll not lie lol
[girl]
23:38
u know whats really ironic lol u weren't interested in me the first time we spoke and now u want me lol and miss me
[You]
23:39
? yes i was
u mean on fb or in person
[girl]
23:39
fb lol
[You]
23:40
i was interested lol
[girl]
23:40
lies lol
its really hillarious now tho when i think about it =P=P
[You]
23:41
why
[girl]
23:41
because i never imagined u missing me
[You]
23:42
yea well wen i met u i thought u were awesome
[girl]
23:42
thank u =)=)
[You]
23:42
dont get to big headed now lol but yea good looking and very independent and easy to get on with
[girl]
23:43
thank u
=)=) ur great too
dont get any more big headed =P=P
gtg anyways im exhausted
x
[You]
23:45
thanks me to
ttyl x


did i come off as wussy or just confident or wat?


extra detail, she has no money for credit on her phone so cant realy txt her..which is fine because txting annoys me tbh, shud i phone her ? or does that seem needy? shud i play it cool for a while after complimenting her so much?

cheers guys

Agree with Kowalski, when she says things like that sees seeking validation, don't go all AFC and validate her and tell her how much you liked her etc etc.

thanks guys appreciate the input. Thing is though i have lost girls before because i basically refused to validate them lol, i thought i should let her know in a confident way that yes i do like her. However , she is the type of girl that gets chased ALOT has alot of attention and i think the fact that i wasnt exhibiting any wussy, needy behaviour and sending mixed signals it was working, im afraid now that by telling her that i do like her that the fun is over? theres no more chase for her? important to note she added me randomly on facebook and started talking to me. Also how i told her some exact things that i liked about her and she just replied with "your great too", i didnt really like..

Matey,
After 4 dates and a kiss close, I dont think you should worry about being confident or being a wussy. Just arrange another date whenever you can and take it from there. Dont read too much about the conversation from last night, She likes you, end of...!
p.s. make sure shes over 16 tho

Fella,

You got 4 dates outta this chick and so far only a kiss. Mmmmh you must really like her.

I dont know about other people but by the fourth date, usually I have gone a lot further than just a kiss.

U say that she gets loads of attention and has no credit to text you. From personal experience sounds like she is playing you and just got you exactly where she wants ( a girl who receives plenty of attention, will most of the time have some sort of cred in her phone to contact the guys she wants to), by saying that, it avoids her having to explain you a hell of a lot of BS. If you are that far apart and she wanted to hear your voice she'd make an effort (girl do crazy things, like illogical things when they into you).
Does she get loads of phone calls when you guys are together? Does she have another phone?

Maybe she wants to take it slowly but you gotta figure out what she wants by asking her, because so far it seems like you are treading on muddy waters.

Again, you are the best person to judge the situation bcoz you are the one interacting with her. I'd say on the next date, try to get a pointer as to where all this is going.