I have been in the pua stuff for a while had a couple of one night stands and some short relationships in the past 6 months.
My situation is I have been with one girl for the past 6-7 weeks I met her through a friend of mine went out for a couple of dates which lead to sex and from then onwards I would spend the weekends at her place she has a great personality and we were getting on really well.

I need help on the following question

1) She wants a long term relationship how do I avoid it and carry on the way we are?
2) I am kind of getting a small emotional attachment to her how do I stop this any help or advice methods will be much appreciated?

Sheesh.

There's nothing wrong with being emotionally attached to someone. That's a perfectly normal thing which I expect will happen to me soon enough as well, despite my brazen 'I want to meet all three billion girls before deciding which one I want' attitude.

They key here, surely, is communication. If you really don't want anything long term or serious, then sit down with her and explain that. She'll either tell you to fuck off, or she'll say she doesn't want anything serious either. If its the former, well then it wasn't ever going to go your way anyway because that's what she wanted.

You don't want to develop an emotional attachment? Fine, stop seeing her. I don't see how else you can do it. If you like being single and carefree and going from girl to girl, the the time is now to cut this one loose and look elsewhere.

But man, if you're getting attached to her and she's getting attached to you, then just go with the flow. I'm not going to tell you its wrong to get with one girl for a long period of time. There isn't anything fundamentally wrong with that, and in fact, when you really get to know someone like that, it can be quite a wonderful, beautiful thing. In fact, you're lucky and you don't even realise it: Despite having an abundance of girls in your life, you've met a girl who you're growing attached too. Creating a relationship out of abundance is a much better idea than creating a relationship out of scarcity. If you'd been single and sexless for the last 6 months and suddenly this girl came along and you proclaimed an emotional attachment, then that'd set alarm bells ringing. But you're not, you're doing this the right way.

A bit of a ramble - but I hope that helps. :s

CovertOp has hit the nail on the head I reckon. There are no 'methods' to telling a girl you dont want to be with them, you just have to do it if that is what you really want. From this point on its most likely going to have to be all or nothing with her, you just have to make the decision that is right for you!

I wonder if you spending all your weekends with her within the first month and a half is producing this situation on both counts. There is going to be an assumption on her part that this is only heading one way, emotional attachment and a relationship. Perhaps you need to step back a bit and mix up your weekends with other things.

I'd say when I started seeing my current girl I saw her a maximum 2 nights a week for the first couple of months. This was a conscious thing on my part, I didn't want to over-do or saturate the fun element and transform overnight from being single into a default relationship status, like I had done with other relationships before discovering this community. From there it grew into a relationship, but it felt natural, it wasn't me suddenly clicking 'relationship status' on my Facebook or telling each other it has magically happened. It should be an organic process, and not rushed into, after all you want to be a man of many options, not settling for what's in front of you.

ye... AVOID AT ALL COSTS..... but then again dont take my advice im emotionally fucked up

I would have to agree with Phil, There is no easy ways out of these situations. I have recently been in the same position when i Fclosed a HB6 and ended up getting to emotionaly attached then was shot down by the classic "Im not ready for another relationship" speech about 2 months into our seeing each other.

I think the one line that phil quoted at the end of his post is a perfect way to asses the situation and possibly abide by it as a rule in future as i will

Hope you make the right choice EckoFresh

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