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Originally Posted by monkeybuster
Wow! From a sheer observation point of view... I find it amazing how one person can change the whole atmosphere of a group of people (had the same situation at work). It will result in 2 ways.
1) 'Boat Rockers' will leave the community. (I don't think they should - I think they have something to contribute - they just have to communicate it better)
2) 'Boat Rockers ' get blazed, then calibrate to fit in, a select few will ignore them for a while... But over time will start communicating again.
I'm sure there is a whole phsycology book written on how communities deal with the integration of extreme personalities. If anyone know about one let me know... Would e handy to deal with a situation at work.
Sorry... Just ramraided a perfectly good dispute.
(Man I talk shite sometimes! But seriously interested in the topic!)
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I think you're reading too much into it mate.
Phil isn't an extreme personality - he isn't some radical, maverick, free-spirited thinker, who is here to rock the
PUA world to its foundations, as I'm sure he would love you to belive.
Basically, people aren't jealous/angry at him, it's just irritating to log on to here, a free website full of mostly sound people, and see the drivel he writes which is obviously fabricated - it gives other 'PUAs' a bad name. When you try to raise it with him, his response is usually along the lines of:
"u iz defo jelous of me m8, jus cos i hv da ballz 2 go up 2 brds and ask if dey wana fuk wile u stay at home n wank".
This is from a man who actually has a child - you would expect at least a little maturity.