Ok so ive started to take a real hard look at my self lately as part of my inner game development, and how ive realised ive been a completely needy dude!.

I hope this will help to some people.

Ok i started to realise that every single thing/action/hobby i did was influenced by the desire for sex not becouse i wanted to really do them but becouse i thought it would get me woman.

meaning that i would gladly go for a walk not becouse i wanted to walk but in hope that a magical encounter would happen with a HB, i remember going out to the local food store not to buy food but in hope of meeting someone without any desire of approaching (How lame) sacrificing my preciouse time in hope of woman approaching me is not only a massive disrespect to myself but lame!.

Now i question and spectate my every action and ask, "Am i doing this becouse of the influence of woman?"
"Am i doing this for me, becouse i want to, for my pleasure?" If answering yes to the latter then ill do it, but if i do anything which compromises me just for sake of meeting woman "For esxample like going to grab lunch not becouse im hungry but becouse i just mite get lucky, and end up spending money on food when im only there eyeing up woman i dare not approach" if this is the case that i am compensating myself then i say no to myself and forget the action if it is not a deliberate decission to meet girls.

Ive found this to be rather liberating and i can lay in my room playing computer games and listening to music r reading a good book in total peace in the knowledge that im respecting myself, this abundant mentality is bringing the woman my way.

Plus when deciding to go out deliberatly to meet and approach woman i find i have a sense of enpowerd action which makes my purpose clear and self respecting of my intent and desire.

What i mean by this is that if i havent made a deliberate promiss to myself that ill approach woman and i go out drinking and blowing away my cash just becouse woman are around and i may get approached and get lucky, doesnt mean i wont go out it just means its got to be an action that respects me and doesnt make me in need of female attention.

Hope you all get the gist

Cheers guys

xxx