ok, now i know mystery and style apparantly use those names in the field, but i was wondering, would it work so well if we did it in england?
i tried it at lincoln the other day under the enthusiasm of my wing, and it generally intruiged the girls to want to know my real name, anyone have any experience of this?
If you've ever wondered, how to reconcile the seeming discrepancy between the two most common things you've heard about women, namely:
•women like mystery in a man
•women like to know secrets about a man
then here's an explanation by Kate Reynolds from Mindlist:
"A short time ago there was a thread about revealing secrets as a way to gain rapport. IMHO this really is a great way to establish rapport, but it can be carried too far. I (and perhaps other women) like the idea of layers. Like peeling an onion, we like to think there is always more that we don't know yet. So, sharing a secret is fine as long as you convey the idea that there are lots more - and that you are willing to give some up for a price. I grow bored when I think I know all there is to know about someone."
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I use Loke as my name in the field, it's my nick name with my friends as well. Girls seem to really like the name as well. Always getting little comments on it.