Hi all, i'm a long time reader, i've posted before but i'm not a hardcore pua, more just here to improve my inner game and self confidence, basically become a better me. I should mention that i've had a fair few one night stands but never a serious relationship or even a fuck buddy to speak of really.

It's been pretty slow progress for me since i learned about the game but little steps and all that, i'm now pretty comfortable in social situations and i can happily approach sets and have a bit of banter and i don't mind failing because every time i do i learn something else about me or about how not to do something.

My job involves working away from home, often all over the country. right now i'm working in London and staying in Romford. On friday three weeks ago i was asked to stay over the weekend to work overtime, staying in the travelodge alone i deciced i'd go out flying solo (the first time i'd ever done this). I was surprised how comfortable i felt when i got out on the town, its a pretty frendly place but i knew i had to get out and talk to people if i was going to enjoy myself.

Anyways to try and keep this a bit shorter i made a point to always be chatting to someone, at the bar, in the smoking area even the guy who sells lollys in the bathroom. So after opening a few sets, getting chatted up by a gay guy and nearly pulling a hb8 confidence was up and i hit the dancefloor. Almost straight away i got dancing close to this blonde, we later went to another club and eventually i got the kiss close at the end of the night, she took my number but wouldn't give me hers.

The next day she text me midday or so, i was working but text back and arranged a date for that evening as i was still up working on my own and at a loose end. We went back to the pace i first met her and we found a dark corner and chatted a bit and kissed some. I found out she had a boyfriend but she says its over and he's in new zealand anyway. We had more dates on the sunday, monday and tueseday she came over to my hotel room. So things moved pretty fast, at the end of that week she's had to go to a work placement for her uni course (trainee doctor) for 4 weeks.

So i'm trying not to get carried away here but a case of oneitis is taking over, to be honest i'm lucky i've not blown it already. we've spoken on the phone a few times and text a fewtimes a day but i know i'm getting carried away here. Its in the balance, she's telling me she needs space whilst she puts an end to it with her bf which i get, but how should i play it from here on out? I want to keep it fun and light hearted but i don't wanna pile the pressure on.

Sorry for such a long post, but any advice you guys might have will be helpful because i'm really on unexplored ground here and i don't want to blow it. Cheers

Sounds like there's not much you can do for the next 4 weeks so keep going out having fun and meeting new people. She has a boyfriend too so she needs to sort out what she wants with that so let her do just that- it should be her decision. I'm a newbie too so if you make it up to Liverpool with your job/travels give us a shout