Style says in his book 'the game', perhaps Mastering the game, is to leave them game. or something along those lines, you get to the point where you can have any woman you like, and then, you have access to THE woman thats right for you. mystery says that the game shouldnt be your life, it should enrich it. these techniques, uderstanding the way people think, body language etc, it sets you up for more than just girls in life, the confidence helps wonders, you can talk to anybody, be sure in everything you do. its not just for getting girls, it makes you feel better, so just use the basics, read up on general interaction and practice getting something else from people with this sort of technique, if you want the gf that is