Afternoon all...

A nice easy one for you...

I start a new job in October... at a huge company with 300 people in the office...

So my first month, when the age old question will be asked 300 times..

"so are you single, married ? " what do you guys normally reply...

I dont want to come over as a "dirty rotten player" but also dont want to come over as a "misrable single guy" both of which im not... but what do you guys answer when asked that age old one ?

tebbs

if you want to game them, i guess theres a simple neg, ;wouldnt you like to know; or something, maybe a comfort builder like 'havent found the right girl' (bit afc) i think if they get to asking this, you've already opened, so comfort is the best bet, of course, im no mystery

Tell the truth...! Why being single means it has to be miserable..?

Just tell them your having fun...It neither implies your in a relationship or single. But as Legend said, theres nout wrong with being single.

yes, it will strange going into a new work place where no one knows me, they dont know im into pickup...

and no i wont be gaming work staff... thats my number 2 rule, after not shagging another mans women...

So yeah Ill stick with im having fun...

thanks tebbs

I just reply with the old, "I'm single at the moment, I havent found the right girl for me yet."

If you're not going to game them, what does it matter what you say? Better to let'em know you're up for it, in case they've got a friend. I just assume girls are flirting with me if they ask... it's fun.. and leads to flirting

i.e "Hey, are you single?"

Sasha "Are you chatting me up?" or "That's a rubbish pickup line. you need to work on your game!"

etc etc

then u can still say you're just having fun or whatever....

Well, if you're single, you say:

"I'm single."

If you're married, you say:

"I'm married."



Seriously though, if you're not planning on gaming anyone at work (rule two was it?), why do you care if they think you're a player or not?