At a stage where I still want to go out at weekends, most of my mates are tied up with GFs or money is a bit tight for them.

Going to a club or bar by myself is something I've been curious about, but never gone through with just because you always see that guy in the place on his own who looks a little creepy.

What are your thoughts on this? Currently I'm leaning towards going solo and adopting a 'don't give a f**k' attitude once I get in (without being a prick obviously)

You could try day game as well as working on improving your social circle.

I think you might be suprised by how many people do go out on their own. I have done it before and either come home early, approached alot purely to stop me becoming bored, or had an enjoyable evening. I guess you really dont know what mood you are gonna be in till you try it.

Hey man, this is all in your head. Nobody need know that you are out there on your own. Also, if you are having fun and displaying positive energy then people will be attracted to you and won't think of you as 'creepy'. I have managed to do this with zero experience of nightclubs so you should have no problems at all.

By the way have you looked for local people on here to go sarging with? Put a post up and somebody - current member or not - may reply.

Yep day game is the next step. Out of the local area though as I teach at a nearby sec school

Thanks for the advice peeps, will be heading up to central London in the next few weeks