Ive spent the last year of my life trying to accept and enjoy life through self realization, knowing who I am and to stop shaping my personality around other people’s opinions in order to feel acceptance.
Here I am a year later applauding myself for getting so far…when I joined this fucking forum and once again I find my self seeking approval, appreciation and acceptance from other members of the community like your opinions actually matter.
The fact is I don’t nor should I give a fuck what anyone on this forum thinks, im sure some of you are good, knowledgeable, interesting people but so far this forum hasn’t helped me on my life journey until now.
Im all up for helping others but a lot of this forum is bitching and boasting, neither helps anyone,
No one heres opinion is gold, what might be right for one person may not be the best for another.
And the worst thing is ive been holding my opinion back on a lot of post, worried that others my not approve, dub my opinion as worthless and thus making me feel like a cunt. But why?.... because although I had thought I had made major progress, I still have a long road ahead of me.
So in the nicest way possible I just wanted to say I don’t fucking care what you think, I now who I am n who I want to be, your opinions mean shit.
Im only posting this to get something off my mind,
I mainly have Phil to thank.
The amount of shit people give him for his (and I must admit) pointless posts is ridiculous, but it doesn’t effect him or stop him continuously posting his thoughts.
That guy is a soldier!
Thanks man……I feel better.
Aim high, achieve great things
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Is there anything else but opinions/ego boost to seek here?
LL
"When women love us, they forgive us everything, even our crimes; when they do not love us, they give us credit for nothing, not even our virtues" - Balzac