I friend requested a hot girl I saw a couple of days ago and she had just left my request, didn't ignore or accept, just left it untouched.

Today she finally decided to ignore my request, don't know why. Since she accepts other guys, and its not about looks since I have no picture of myself on facebook yet.

What the fuck. I sent other girls requests and they accepted, even her real close friends. (One of her friends liked me last year). I find it complete bullshit that all the other girls accepted, and the one I actually want to talk to ignores it.

I'm 16 and shes 15-16. I'm pretty new to all this so I wanted to practice online a little. I know I shouldn't have friend requested her in the first place, but its already done so help me out.

I need a good opener that will initiate a conversation at least.

So what should I message her?

Just leave it for now, don't seem desperate.
Maybe leave it for a week or two, then send a message, ''Oh I saw blah blah, reminded me, maybe we should....''

I've found women like to be chased....but not hassled!!

no leave it completley.

stop obsessing over this one girl and get over it.

she rejected your friend request. so what? she probably thinks you're a loser or doesn't know you. move on.

everyone treats FB differently. some people will accept anyone, others only like to accept people they definitley know or with display pictures because loads of random nerdy needy men like to try and chat them up online.

just chill and start talking to girls in real life, leave the internet for now. don't start trying to think of a thousand amazing openers you can throw at her which will guarantee a response. that is needy and obsessive behaviour with a slight hint of being a stalker. that is NOT attractive, to a girl or to a person... and it shouldn't be to yourself either.

Imagine your a hot girl on facebook, and you have hundreds of guys roaming around there adding any hot girl they find..

One fun experiment you can do, is make a fake profile with a hot girl picture and see what response you get and maybe learn from it?

@ Loke, I imagine that's quite entertaining seeing the constant drivel that girls on FB get exposed to everyday.

I just saw your 15-16 tho, and I know kids that age use facebook ALOT more than I do...But my main advice is to use Facebook for your friends and family, and go out and meet girls face to face, you'll learn way more that way.

Don't message her, get over her.

You're only 16 you shouldn't really be using pickup, girls haven't become aclimatized to socail interactions at that age, and you shouldn't require any skills to get a girl like that. Just be awesome and confident.

This is your first post on the forum. Head over to the introductions thread and introduce yourself. This isn't a free advice for teens forum.

If only I had learned about this shit at 16

just fuck her off... get someone else

dude, i know exactly how you feel. youv made one "mistake" and you feel like it is all over. she gives you 1 positive response and you feel like your in heaven, the next she gives a slightly negative vibe and its all hell. Trust me, relax. Im a few years older than you and let me tell you. This PUA stuff works best with more mature girls. The girls at your age only requier you to Look groomed, Keep the conversations fun, a little push pull and just a little bit of negging but you should just sprinkle it all over the conversation.