I was thinking about this point a moment ago... after waking and realising id missed my night out HANGOVERS

Ok so a few guys have been asking about once you open a set wher do you go from there... ITS THAT AWKWARDNESS WHER IT BEGINS TO FEEL FORCED

From this point u need to have the girl WANT to speak back and what do people LOVE to talk about more than anythin THEMSELVES

the issue here is... what do u do, blah blah is routine questioning to which people have no real interest in. So u need to allow them to pick and choose the info THEY want to give...

THE QUESTION

So u seem pretty cool, and intelligent enough to understand this... people in life have alot of different things that make them unique would u agree? lets say imagine you was a girl & i was a boy... and we where on blind date... what would you say about you makes u different from everyone else...

Somethin along them lines... u need to say U SEEM COOL AND INTELLIGENT ENUF so they feel the need to clarify this by answering

the thing is either they will spill... or if they say I DONT KNOW you can follow with... Well ok for instance WITH ME blahblah then say what about u

(DO NOT CONTINUE TO GO ON ABOUT U, PEOPLE LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEM)

or you could say "for instance, what do you feel passionate about" after this question she will just RAMBLE

so there u go easy, no routine just a question set in a slightly more intruiging way

better than sayin WHATS YA HOBBY