hey everyone, new to these forums after a long time reading.. wondering if i could take anyone's advice on this..

basically i met a girl 2 months ago, we text, we phoned, met up and we fucked, both admitted we liked each other, only one problem, she was going to work abroad for two months.. we all know what these party islands are like of course haha..

admittedly i do like this girl, but i am prepared to accept the worse, obviously like i say im not blind to what goes on on holidays, never mind working there. she still messages me, texts me the odd time when she's drunk, asks whether i miss her and we've had a few phone calls.

im just wondering if anyone could advise me on how to play this? how do i respond to her? is it possible to keep her interested and thinking about me? or is this a lost cause? baring in mind i'll still be seeing her after due to us having the same group of friends, any advice is appreciated!

thanks

I was in a similar situation

My opinion- dont close the door completely, but dont get too caught up on her.....keep gaming at home etc, then if she comes back to you, all well and good....I find it hard to keep good game going on just a few messages or texts, so dont burn yourself out

Just be better, more successful for when she returns....shes more likely to want you again then!

I agree with Cha. Just whatever you do don't pursue her too much. Send her the odd text(like fortnightly at most) asking how she's doing but other than that let her make all the effort. Play it cool and don't give her any sign you're concerned cos after all you're awesome and she's the one with something to lose.

I learnt all this the hard way when my ex went on holiday for a month-or-so and I caved in and really caused myself problems later. Just have fun, keeping your options open, and when she returns you can catch up on all the great stuff you've both been doing. Let us know how it goes man.

i think you would be better off forgetting about her, if she comes back and you hook up then great, if that’s truly what you want. But you don’t want to be stressing over what she’s doing and who’s she with, fuck all that.

Honestly ask yourself why you would join a forum such as this one? There is obviously a part of you that wants to explore the art of pickup, so do it man.

Oh and you should post some details in the introduction section and im sure everyone will be more than happy to give more experienced advice.

Hope it helps mate,

wake

Yeah, I completely see sense in what you're saying.. Like you say after mulling it over it's probably worth leaving it for now, carrying on gaming and you never know what might happen in the future.

Thanks for the advice!

id forgot her until she comes home....

many years as a holiday rep and I can promise you, the girl reps and workers, all came out to the resort with a "boyfriend" back home...

By the end of the season they all pomped at least 6 people, and went home to boyfriend who had been faithfully txting and emailling all season...the best bit was when the boyfriends turned up for a weeks holiday and sussed out what was going on, and promptly got dumped by the girls on the last day of the holiday... epic times

Forgot about her until she comes home, and if shes gone to turkey, im afraid mate, your're fucked, she will end with a turk,

Trust me when I went out to Turkey, at the beginning of the season all the 19 girls I worked with said "im not having a turkish boyfriend" by the end of the summer 18 of 19 had been Turkish bf's, 3 where pregnant and 3 where engaged...