For a while now I’ve been disputing whether or not I should complete the book “the rules of the game” and the field missions involved.
For those who have never heard of the book, it basically consists of an instructional day by day guide to conquering your AA and becoming a true PUA (supposedly). Although it’s a 30 day Course, its not necessarily require to complete in 30 days, in fact it doesn’t matter how long it takes just as long as each mission is finished be it 30 days or 30 weeks.
It starts with very simple and easy tasks and works its way up to more difficult shit.

with each daily challenge there is a passage to help mould you into a true pua, giving tips, guides and very helpful briefings.

I have attempted to complete the book several times but always lack the motivation needed to pursue through the whole book, I was always worried that what I was reading was bullshit, and that at the end I would be no better off than when id started. But as no one yet has informed me that it would be a waste of time, I’m prepared to do what ever it takes to actually finish the book in hope that if nothing else, I can inform other pua newbie’s whether or not this book is worth reading/following.

To help me get through the book and give me that burst of motivation, I am going to record my daily challenge in this thread. with each diary entry I will post key parts from the daily briefing to help other members of the site who are new to the game.

But remember that the briefings are from the book, suggested tips, confidence building exercises etc…is all someone else’s material, material that helped Neil Strauss become a master pick up artist.

If non of this interests you or you don’t find any of my posts helpful, then please do not read them and criticise me, unless an admin tells me otherwise I will continue to post every time I finish a challenge along with key parts of the briefing,
even if no one reads this, I will still find it helpful to have all my daily results recorded in a single thread but I really hope this will help other beginners and I would be more than grateful to hear any of your opinions during my posts.

PS I will probably start day 1 this week end.

thanks,
Wake

Sounds good. I'll try it with you as soon as iv'e finished the 1st book !!

I started ROTG at New Year. I got about 11 days into it, which was interesting and actually quite fun. I stopped doing the challenges though when I started to just go out and meet girls, I decided I didn't want / need daily challenges.

That said, I do think the first 11 days really helped me. I'd recommend the book to anyone simply looking for some structure to their learning.

Let us know any time you want a wing to head out with Wake!

I should probably get that.

Day 1

Field mission:
Approach 5 strangers, doesn’t matter whether their male, female, young, old, friendly or unfriendly. The goal is to make small talk with no intent other than filling the silence with a question. It doesn’t matter whether response is a detailed conversation or a simple yes, no answer as long as you get five. Can be about any subject, weather, sports, entertainment etc…

My approaches

1, Asked man at bus stop about football results.
2, asked a woman to recommend a drink.
3, asked a woman about the weather.
4, Talked to a man about Wimbledon results.
5, Asked a girl to help us identify my friends eye colour.

(This was done for the sake of the book, im not including all the sarging I did at the weekend. day 1 mission easy aye?)

Read the manifesto.

This briefings is intended to help eliminate self-sabotaging beliefs, it helps you understand why you are your own worst enemy.
Limiting beliefs are thoughts that you believe about yourself, about others and about the world that holds you back.
The truth is everyone suffers from limiting beliefs of some sort, here are the more common ones:

“If I talk to her, she will ignore me or worse, say something nasty and embarrass me.”

Reality: Most people are brought up to be polite and courteous unless feeling threatened. If the approach is not going well, the target is more likely to excuse her-self to the bath room or tell you she is having a private conversation.
But if you do go out and approach you’ll see that its actually quite rare for a girl to totally ignore you or go out her way to embarrass you.

(I can vouch for this, this weekend me and my wing hit like 20 sets between us, not one ignored or tried to embarrass us.)

“People are looking at me, judging me or making fun of me”

Reality: This is half true, people may notice you but they are too busy worrying what people think of them. like you, everyone else seeks social approval. Also anyone watching your approach naturally assumes you know the set, so act like you do, it will ease your worries and help you approach more effectively.

“woman like jerks, bad boys, ass holes etc..”

Reality: This is a common misconception, woman are not attracted to bad boys or jerks, they are attracted to strong guys, guys who demonstrate strength - no necessarily physical but the ability to make them feel safe. Its not good vs bad or nice guy vs mean guy, it is in fact weak vs strong guys so confidence is essential.

“Im not good looking, rich or famous enough to be with a beautiful woman.”

Reality: Plenty of famous people and millionaires have the same problem as some of you. Whilst having money, fame and good looks might make it easier to pull, there not essential. The way we look doesn’t matter nearly as much as we present our selves. This requires only good grooming and cloths that conveys and attractive identity. When it comes down to fame and wealth, simply displaying the desire and ability to achieve them can be just as powerful. Many woman are attracted to goals and potentials.

“There is this one girl……..”

Reality:
There are many incredible woman in this world. If you are hung up on one and she hasn’t yet portrayed
similar feelings, then this is not love, this is obsession, and obsession is likely to scare her away. the
best thing to do is to go out and interact with as many woman as possible, maybe then you will realise
that this one girl is not so special.

“If I approach a woman, she’ll know im hitting on her and think im lame”

Reality:
This is only partially true, when you approach badly. this includes making them feel uncomfortable,
creeping them out or seeming to have an agenda. Few Woman will resent talking to someone who is
warm, funny, sincere, interesting, engaging, makes them feel comfortable and who isn’t going to sit
there all night chewing their ear off.

“women don’t like sex as much as men, they want relationships”

Reality:
It is a fact that woman have twice as many nerve endings in her clitoris than a man has in his entire
penis.
A woman can experience orgasm after orgasm with some even lasting minutes.
Most men only have one orgasm and then looses arousal.
A woman can have 5 different types or orgasms and in fact the clitoris is solely designed for pleasure.
So in short, good sex feels better for a woman it only makes sense that they want it more.
It is down to their own limiting beliefs that hold them back. “I’ll get a reputation for being easy, slutty
etc..”.

Hope this helps and day 2 coming soon.

Wake

Day 2

Field mission

Today’s field mission was to go out and make small talk with 5 more strangers, but this time make eye contact with each person and record their eye colour.
In the first field mission the purpose was to develop the ability to talk to anyone without fear. Meeting people eye to eye will not only increase the likelihood of a response, it’ll help you connect with them on a more personal level.

I figured I’d get all my approaches out the way as I was shopping in Asda, here’s the results:

1, Spoke to a man about the latest world cup results, he had blue eyes.
2, Asked a woman about her opinion on toilet rolls, she had green eyes.
(I know its strange but we were in toiletries section and she had a pack of toilet papers in her hand.)
3, Talked to a woman about cheese, I know another weird subject but I was in asda after all, she had a dark browny/green eyes. Crazy eyes.
4, Spoke to a guy about the shitty England game, he had blue eyes.
5, Spoke to a hot girl, about Twilight, she was holding the DVD, she had blue eyes.

There was no briefing today but it was suggested that i listen to a self-hypnosis audio on the stlye life website.

So far the missions are a piece of piss, I can understand how they would help someone who is completely socially awkward but I think im far past this stage, however im going to continue to complete the book day by day.