What is attractive to women?

[John1]

Hi Im a noob at this, what is attractive to women?

How does attraction work?

Is it very general or is it very individual ie different women like different things?


How do you create attraction inside a woman?

[ManMooth]

I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. I had the same problem and helped me to clarify a lot of things in my head.

[John1]

Originally Posted by ManMooth

I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. I had the same problem and helped me to clarify a lot of things in my head.

Looks intriguing, can you give an answer? What do you know so far?

[ManMooth]

Read the book Sir and stop looking for magic pills and shortcuts, put the work in, hustle, become your best self, enjoy life, listen more, do more, give more.

[John1]

Originally Posted by ManMooth

Read the book Sir and stop looking for magic pills and shortcuts, put the work in, hustle, become your best self, enjoy life, listen more, do more, give more.

Was looking or a direct answer from someone that's already done the work.

Cant you just list a simple small list of what women are most attracted to?

[ManMooth]

Confidence, eye contact, humour, leading, status,... more advanced may give you better examples.

[Paddington]

This is a hard question because it is so general but i'll try (word of warning because it's a general question i'll sound very vague on a lot of my answers)

Overall:
1. Women are human too so they are attracted to specific things (preferences e.g. tall, a certain race etc.) but there are too many preferences woman by woman so you're better off ignoring the specific things

2. BUT women are also to general things in men (dominance, how desired he is by other women, social intelligence, willingness to walk away etc.) once again there are a lot of things here but you're better off learning the things women are attracted to generally and BRINGING them out in your own personality

IN THE END MANY THINGS ARE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN GENERALLY AND SPECIFICALLY BUT AS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ALL THE SPECIFICS BETTER OFF FOCUSING ON THE GENERAL THINGS

Attraction is not the be all end all as if you can't get her comfortable first she won't be attracted
But to answer the question of how attraction works:

Men are lightswitches - we see it we want it or we don't
Women are like dimmers - they don't decide right away and if it goes down it can always come back up

Phew.. hope this helps

[John1]

Originally Posted by ManMooth

Confidence, eye contact, humour, leading, status,... more advanced may give you better examples.

You are the man, thanks brother!

[John1]

Originally Posted by Paddington

This is a hard question because it is so general but i'll try (word of warning because it's a general question i'll sound very vague on a lot of my answers)

Overall:
1. Women are human too so they are attracted to specific things (preferences e.g. tall, a certain race etc.) but there are too many preferences woman by woman so you're better off ignoring the specific things

2. BUT women are also to general things in men (dominance, how desired he is by other women, social intelligence, willingness to walk away etc.) once again there are a lot of things here but you're better off learning the things women are attracted to generally and BRINGING them out in your own personality

IN THE END MANY THINGS ARE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN GENERALLY AND SPECIFICALLY BUT AS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ALL THE SPECIFICS BETTER OFF FOCUSING ON THE GENERAL THINGS

Attraction is not the be all end all as if you can't get her comfortable first she won't be attracted
But to answer the question of how attraction works:

Men are lightswitches - we see it we want it or we don't
Women are like dimmers - they don't decide right away and if it goes down it can always come back up

Phew.. hope this helps

Helps alot bro, thankyou!