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John1 28-04-2018 09:45 AM

What is attractive to women?
 
Hi Im a noob at this, what is attractive to women?

How does attraction work?

Is it very general or is it very individual ie different women like different things?


How do you create attraction inside a woman?

ManMooth 28-04-2018 10:31 AM

I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. I had the same problem and helped me to clarify a lot of things in my head.

John1 28-04-2018 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ManMooth (Post 111070)
I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. I had the same problem and helped me to clarify a lot of things in my head.

Looks intriguing, can you give an answer? What do you know so far?

ManMooth 28-04-2018 12:02 PM

Read the book Sir :) and stop looking for magic pills and shortcuts, put the work in, hustle, become your best self, enjoy life, listen more, do more, give more.

John1 28-04-2018 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ManMooth (Post 111074)
Read the book Sir :) and stop looking for magic pills and shortcuts, put the work in, hustle, become your best self, enjoy life, listen more, do more, give more.

Was looking or a direct answer from someone that's already done the work.

Cant you just list a simple small list of what women are most attracted to?

ManMooth 28-04-2018 12:28 PM

Confidence, eye contact, humour, leading, status,... more advanced may give you better examples.

Paddington 28-04-2018 02:35 PM

This is a hard question because it is so general but i'll try (word of warning because it's a general question i'll sound very vague on a lot of my answers)

Overall:
1. Women are human too so they are attracted to specific things (preferences e.g. tall, a certain race etc.) but there are too many preferences woman by woman so you're better off ignoring the specific things

2. BUT women are also to general things in men (dominance, how desired he is by other women, social intelligence, willingness to walk away etc.) once again there are a lot of things here but you're better off learning the things women are attracted to generally and BRINGING them out in your own personality

IN THE END MANY THINGS ARE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN GENERALLY AND SPECIFICALLY BUT AS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ALL THE SPECIFICS BETTER OFF FOCUSING ON THE GENERAL THINGS

Attraction is not the be all end all as if you can't get her comfortable first she won't be attracted
But to answer the question of how attraction works:

Men are lightswitches - we see it we want it or we don't
Women are like dimmers - they don't decide right away and if it goes down it can always come back up

Phew.. hope this helps :biggthumpup:

John1 28-04-2018 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ManMooth (Post 111077)
Confidence, eye contact, humour, leading, status,... more advanced may give you better examples.

You are the man, thanks brother!

John1 28-04-2018 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Paddington (Post 111081)
This is a hard question because it is so general but i'll try (word of warning because it's a general question i'll sound very vague on a lot of my answers)

Overall:
1. Women are human too so they are attracted to specific things (preferences e.g. tall, a certain race etc.) but there are too many preferences woman by woman so you're better off ignoring the specific things

2. BUT women are also to general things in men (dominance, how desired he is by other women, social intelligence, willingness to walk away etc.) once again there are a lot of things here but you're better off learning the things women are attracted to generally and BRINGING them out in your own personality

IN THE END MANY THINGS ARE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN GENERALLY AND SPECIFICALLY BUT AS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ALL THE SPECIFICS BETTER OFF FOCUSING ON THE GENERAL THINGS

Attraction is not the be all end all as if you can't get her comfortable first she won't be attracted
But to answer the question of how attraction works:

Men are lightswitches - we see it we want it or we don't
Women are like dimmers - they don't decide right away and if it goes down it can always come back up

Phew.. hope this helps :biggthumpup:

Helps alot bro, thankyou!


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