Hi there,
I dunno if this is the right place to post this but if anyone could please proffer some sage-like advice it would be much appreciated.
I used to smoked a lot of weed (pretty much stoned every day for 2 years) I am still smoking off and on, but not as much as I used to. My social life is a lot more active than it used to be (I used to live quite a hermetic life), but I have problems meeting women. In fact I've not had even kissed a girl in the past two years
I've been told that i'm quite good looking, and i am a competent conversationalist but when it comes to approaching women in a club I just imagine the scenario in my head and it make me cringe. Just thinking about approaching a girl I like makes me feel really nervous and I get this anxious feeling in my stomach if you know what I mean. I think i have really low self-esteem to be honest.
My friend has no problem approaching women at all, but i think he takes it too far (random groping and sleazy talk) I could never do that - in fact i'm quite bitter over his ability to approach random women with ease. I'm new to the whole
PUA thing - any advice would be welcome as I'm looking to go out on monday night.
The reason i posted this is because last night I saw the girl of my dreams last night in a club, she was my type and I'm convinced she looked at me twice, but I couldn't build up the courage to approach her (she was dancing with a female friend) - I'm still regretting my inaction !!