I have a problem im trying to work on. I think WAY to much about things. One thing being tiny little things girls say. Like ill be speaking to a girl online ( i only do this to meet them from different areas because the area where im from is SHITE for females, although i do still go out on the prowl) ill ask for their number and they might say 'ermm wts urss ? n ill jus txt ya cus ii cba 2get my fone lmao ' is one example. Does that mean they are testing me to see if they can control me and that, or does it mean they done want me to have it and they wont bother texting me when i do send them my number, or should i f'fight' it and say nahh gal i asked for YOUR number so send away...or i just stop being stupid and send them my number and if the txt me they txt me.

Dude, you can spend hours and hours talking complete nonsense and getting nowhere with random girls you meet online. Your instinct is right, the girl doesn't want to give you her number and is making up a lame excuse to get you off her back. Either be more forceful and brush off her rejections or better still go out and have real face to face interactions, i've seen you do this before and totally ace it! you can do it mate.

thanks, you good mate? Okay, how should i be more forceful with this, wana give it a go? and if that dont work, im just not gonna write back to her after lol...Yeee i want to get out with you guys again, i just cant get no where ...Its hard not having mates i can go out with and meet gals

You're right, you do think way too much about stuff!

What Hustler said mate - online game isn't game.

Unless its World of Warcraft. Which is sort of a game, but a different type of game for lonely people.

And Mr T.

Yeah just be prepared to not take any bullshit and walk away from it. If a girl said something to me like 'Whats your number I can't be assed to get my phone right now and i'll text you' My bullshit-o-meter would be ringing alarm bells and i'd instantly lose attraction for a girl who says she 'cant be assed to get her phone' it would make me think 'what else can't she be arsed to do?' not a very attractive trait even if it is just a smokescreen to hide the fact she doesnt want to give out her number.

You just need to recognise when a girl is flirting with token resistance and when she genuinely is not interested, you're gut feeling will normally tell you this if you're a reasonably well adjusted individual (which I think you are). You're still very young so this is something that comes with age and experience usually. Be prepared to instantly walk away no dramas no questions asked when faced with such behaviour, it's really not worth your time.

Yeah you should definately come out with us again, i've not been out with the guys in Bristol for along time either. Have a word with Cefai and see if he can give you a lift over next time he's round these parts.