Alright so I was with my wingman not too long ago, and we met this really nice group of girls, certainly HB8s n 9s, and I managed to number close one of the HB9s (which I was quite proud of seeing as it was my first day properly doing pickup.)

Anyhow so we were texting, everything was going well, she showed some good hints eg. I mentioned I played guitar and she said 'ooh i love that in a guy. I like guys twice as much when they play guitar' or something to that effect

Anyways now subject of conversation has seemed to veer onto guys she has liked/likes... anyone got any help for how I can get out of this AFC state... and actually get back into a good position with her?

Personally I'd be looking to get a day 2 sorted out ASAP before she loses interest.

Texts backward and forwards are great but I would've thought stuff like the guitar comment is what you want to hear in person so you can use it to kino escalate.

So yeh I'd say ask her for a day 2 or better still invite her somewhere, you'll soon know if shes up for it or just playing the text game with you.

Ambitious

Although I'm actually quite new to all this, text & message game is my absolute killer strong point. Right now, for example, I've got a girl texting me and messaging me on facebook I never met. about 10 days ago I happened to be texting a female friend who had left her phone unattended. her mate picked up the message & for some reason text me back.

i was able to rapidly create a great frame by replying "So, do you always steal your friends' phones to text guys? Unbelievable." once I'd checked her out on facebook (solid 7, body 8) it was on. I kept it friendly for two or three messages then as soon as she started emailing me I ramped it up. until finally - "I'm going to a party on Friday at my friend's flat. She told me to bring a hot girl, but I guess you'll do x"

so we're meeting tomorrow.

so yes, I would echo what Amibitious said. the initial interest is always two-way, it's affirmation. acceptance. you need to build value but also scarcity - you're a busy guy, etc - then tell her you're meeting up. don't ask. instruct.

ps this is my first post but i thought it was relevant to what's going on at the moment.

so text pick up girl came to a party with me on Friday and pretty much jumped me about an hour into it. she did tear open my favourite shirt and ruin it though..gutted