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HaveACuppaTea 18-04-2017 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 102930)
First off - Lol at implying Jaz is politically left. Following that with an attack on his ability to think and spell is pure retarded and shows up your immature nature. This will be coming across in all your interactions and it's a big part of the why you are so defeatist.

On topic - I get laid just fine off a constantly renewed range of girls and women that are average to incredible. I almost never cold approach nor rely on social circle luck.


Peace,

kowalski

Kowalski, we've only got your word for that though haven't we? For all we know you could be a world class bullshitter, not having a go, but it's the truth.

I do agree with Ronan to a certain extent, as I believe it is increasingly more difficult for the average Joe to meet an average Jane. Women have a lot more choice now than what they've ever had, women earn more than they used to, and compete with men in the workplace. Their expectations are higher which has made them more picky.

Yes, it's good to have a positive outlook, but you still need to be a realist.

Dannyboy 20-04-2017 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 103092)
I have to disagree here, It's never been easier to "get" women. With the rise of online/app dating it's now child's play. You could if you wished have a full harem of women and never have to make one cold approach. My game now is around 60% in the field and 40% online.

I thought (in all honesty) when I hit my 30's it would start going down hill for me. Stupid fucking idea. I can tell you now aged 32 in 2017, it has NEVER been easier to for me to get laid. It's actually more of a headache for me to 'manage my diary' then it is to cold approach. I'm banging girls from 19 to 26 too. Me now VS me in 2007, it's a no contest mate. And this was when I was 'young', pre dating sites AND in the PUA boom.

Food for thought: there is an entire generation of young men who have never made a cold approach in their life and their IRL social skills are total shit. Young guys these days rely solely on online interactions.

What a time to be alive.

Bang on this
Take note

Phil 28-04-2017 10:45 PM

Fit women are a fucking pain in the ass! I'm done with fucking worldie fit birds...

if u think getting one is a headache... try fucking dating one!

Stick to 8s... once u have 10's its hard to go back and they are all fucking psycho's ALL OF THEM.

R0nan 20-05-2017 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by HaveACuppaTea (Post 103089)
Kowalski, we've only got your word for that though haven't we? For all we know you could be a world class bullshitter, not having a go, but it's the truth.

I do agree with Ronan to a certain extent, as I believe it is increasingly more difficult for the average Joe to meet an average Jane. Women have a lot more choice now than what they've ever had, women earn more than they used to, and compete with men in the workplace. Their expectations are higher which has made them more picky.

Yes, it's good to have a positive outlook, but you still need to be a realist.

Finally someone sees the light.

I am a positive individual and I appreciate the shit out of what I have in life, but I will never bury my head in the sand on what is happening around me in society.

It is DEFINITELY increasingly difficult for the average guy to get a girl on his level due to the changes happening in society I've already outlined.

Coltaine is a smart guy and he explains it far better and more concisely than I can:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vqRbScCIPU

10:26 - for a guy and girl of the same attractiveness, the girl will often now see herself as say an 8 dating a 3.

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Originally Posted by Shahanshah (Post 103000)
Nope. I know exactly who you are. You're a gamer type guy, probably work in some kind of tech or studying for it. You did some RSD stuff for a few years and found no results. You probably read loads of stuff out there to no avail. You found the red pill stuff and rather than seeing it as a way to develop yourself and meet girls, you saw it as an excuse.

You're an arrogant cunt and you know fuck all.

I've worked on myself for more than a decade and have no interest in video games or social media, fucking waste of time.

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 103092)
I have to disagree here, It's never been easier to "get" women. With the rise of online/app dating it's now child's play.

If that's true in your experience then you are living in a different world to some 90% of guys who couldn't bang a 7 from online if their life depended on it. Online and tiner especially is good looking guy game. I can only imagine you are physically in the top 10% and have little idea what life is like for the rest.

Edit - that is assuming you are talking about banging 7+ girls, not girls two points below you...

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 103092)
You could if you wished have a full harem of women and never have to make one cold approach. My game now is around 60% in the field and 40% online.

Sorry mate but I'm calling bullshit there. Again I've met almost every kind of guy out there and that statement applies to the top few percent only.

Shahanshah 22-05-2017 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by R0nan (Post 103306)
Finally someone sees the light.

I am a positive individual and I appreciate the shit out of what I have in life, but I will never bury my head in the sand on what is happening around me in society.

It is DEFINITELY increasingly difficult for the average guy to get a girl on his level due to the changes happening in society I've already outlined.

Coltaine is a smart guy and he explains it far better and more concisely than I can:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vqRbScCIPU

10:26 - for a guy and girl of the same attractiveness, the girl will often now see herself as say an 8 dating a 3.



You're an arrogant cunt and you know fuck all.

I've worked on myself for more than a decade and have no interest in video games or social media, fucking waste of time.



If that's true in your experience then you are living in a different world to some 90% of guys who couldn't bang a 7 from online if their life depended on it. Online and tiner especially is good looking guy game. I can only imagine you are physically in the top 10% and have little idea what life is like for the rest.

Edit - that is assuming you are talking about banging 7+ girls, not girls two points below you...



Sorry mate but I'm calling bullshit there. Again I've met almost every kind of guy out there and that statement applies to the top few percent only.

R0nan, where are you based? Come meet me, Jaz and others, make friends, and chat to some girls if any of us feel like it.

Stein 23-05-2017 01:06 PM

This guy's a MGTOW or some shit right? Also how is this conversation still going on?

markuk 23-05-2017 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 103092)
I have to disagree here, It's never been easier to "get" women. With the rise of online/app dating it's now child's play. You could if you wished have a full harem of women and never have to make one cold approach. My game now is around 60% in the field and 40% online.
What a time to be alive.


My experience of online has always been bad. I'm 38, in shape, think I'm average looking. Only ever get matched to women a couple of years difference on my age.

From my experience therefore online is shit and pretty much everyone I know, unless they are prepared to date girls who are well below them in value.

Whatever works for you though. (Disclaimer I CBA to read the whole thread - but this just jumped out).

PS I thought you must be ancient, 32 you baby.

Phil 07-06-2017 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by markuk (Post 103332)
My experience of online has always been bad. I'm 38, in shape, think I'm average looking. Only ever get matched to women a couple of years difference on my age.

From my experience therefore online is shit and pretty much everyone I know, unless they are prepared to date girls who are well below them in value.

Whatever works for you though. (Disclaimer I CBA to read the whole thread - but this just jumped out).

PS I thought you must be ancient, 32 you baby.

Mate, I only attract women ore attractive than me (altho I'm tidy like)

This is about understanding people and being realistic.

I started putting worldy birds for a laugh when i got all my tattoos but i was still pulling 10's before that but in most cases u need to have enough about you to be the boss of everything around you.

No amount of tricks tips & grooming will pull you these women unless you own an attitude that destroys the 10 other men she is talking to at any time.

Its a process you can learn, i learned it... but its not in a book, it takes time and the need to evolve for yourself without women being the focus

Phil 07-06-2017 10:45 PM

also Jaz is a Spaz, and I'm pretty sure he is still a virgin. Don't listen to him.

MikeH0ck 31-05-2018 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 103092)
I have to disagree here, It's never been easier to "get" women. With the rise of online/app dating it's now child's play. You could if you wished have a full harem of women and never have to make one cold approach. My game now is around 60% in the field and 40% online.

I thought (in all honesty) when I hit my 30's it would start going down hill for me. Stupid fucking idea. I can tell you now aged 32 in 2017, it has NEVER been easier to for me to get laid. It's actually more of a headache for me to 'manage my diary' then it is to cold approach. I'm banging girls from 19 to 26 too. Me now VS me in 2007, it's a no contest mate. And this was when I was 'young', pre dating sites AND in the PUA boom.

Food for thought: there is an entire generation of young men who have never made a cold approach in their life and their IRL social skills are total shit. Young guys these days rely solely on online interactions.

What a time to be alive.

Just a correction but there are definitely dating sites around in 2007.

In fact they've been around since the late 90s.


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