What do I do? Roomate seems to be not interested anymore after we had (poor) sex.

[lukas91]

So I've moved to this apartment, where this one girl (20) lives. She was flirting with me for the first 3 days after I met her, then we went out and at the end of the night she said to me, that when she saw me, she decided to fuck me and that it would be great to have a fuckbuddy as a roomate. And I slept with her (the "sex" was not good at all, my man didn't want to stand up and lasted only for about 5 mins). I'm really not that bad in bed, my ex said to me I was her best (and she was pretty experienced..). I guess it was just too much performance pressure, after she said that she wanted to fuck me.

However, after this night her interest rapidly went down, she now goes out with other guys and I'm only a friend for her. I'm not such a noobie at this, but I think the problem is, that this spark is gone, cause we had sex so soon and now I'm just a checked off item for her plus the sex was terrible I would really like to be with her, how do I win her interest again? I'm 25. Sorry for my english, not a native.

Thanks guys for ur answers and opinions!

[Phil]

Don't have sex unless you are ready.

move on.