How to deal with a attention whore

[dkguy1]

Hi!
I need a advise regarding a «attention whore» i dated 3 months ago.

She dumped me because i wanted something more serious, so i guess i wasn’t the man for hear. We dated for almost 2 months. Had sex many time, snapped/texted everyday. Met all her friends, mom, and also went on a little trip together. Last time i saw her was in september.

After she dumped me i still got snaps from her 3-4 times a week with selfies her looking pretty and more casual snaps. ( I never responded to her snaps, but i also sent some random snaps to her).

I then texted her in november if she wanted to grab a drink with no response. After that the random snaps stopped also.

She contacted me 2 weeks ago asking if i still had the iPhone screen i ordered for her when we dated. I takes 5 min to fix that, so when she broke it i told her i could fix it. ( She payed for the screen ) I received the screen after she dumped me, and didnt hear from her, so the screen has just been lying her.
She asked if i could step by and pick it up and tell her how to fix it. She was trying to be very cute with a lot of emojis etc.

She it not technical at all, so i told her i could do it.

The plan was for her to come by last wednesday, i told her i was home from 6 pm.
6.30pm i got a message that she was late from work, and couldn’t come. And she hoped that i didnt went home just because of her. But she hopped we could do it another time. She also said that she could step by my work. ( Not a good sign)

I just told her no worries, and next time text me when she knows when her shift ends, and ill see where am at.

The day after she sent me a snap. ( 2 months since last time )


I don´t won’t to date her again because she actually dumped me, but i would be nice to have her as a FB.
I didn´t respond to her snap which was quite funny actually, and haven’t sent her any. Reason i didn’t was because i dont want to show to much interest just because she snapped me again.
She was the one not even respond to my last text when i asked if she wanted to hang out, so felt she didnt deserve that.

I guess om overthinking this a lot, and maybe she just want the screen fixed. But i think it weird asking for a favor like that after so many months with no other plan in mind…

She is rich, so she absolutely has the money to pay for a new screen herself. Very high value girl, HB9+.
She knows i liked her a lot… And bet she still think i do.

So i need tips.

Next time she contacts me and suggest a day and i agree for a meeting, should i cancel the meeting the same day and tell her i going on a date and suggest another day? - To balance the power, and maaaybe she wants more attention after that. But risky, maybe she doesn't follow up.

Should i respond to her random snaps to maybe start a convo? Or should i wait for that after we have met again?

And i general, any tips for how i should interact with her now?

[Phil]

If you want more attention from a girl give her less.

You can be funny & charming as much as you like, just don't give attention that makes it look like ur trying to fuck her.

I would just say.... if i fix your screen don't be expecting me to have sex with you in return...

she is automatically gonna try and shoot you down, but don't worry about the comeback or rise to it... i would have the mindset

Im not really interested in fucking her anyway... u have nothing to lose.

[Phil]

or you could go the other way...

"its weird i got proper wrapped up in you, and its weird how differently i see you now to then"

She is 100% gonna press on what you mean here....

Say, well then i seen you as GF material...

Now i just wanna fuck you, ruin you ... and send you home.... with a fixed screen and a broken vagina.

or some variation of the above