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Originally Posted by swordmind88
What makes you say that? She mentioned her dude once the months we been hangning out and she didnt sound very enthisiastic about it. More like "Please get me away from this dude, i know you can...!) She didnt even concratulate him on facebook on his birthday. Sound like a really happy blissfull relationship (based on necessity).
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Originally Posted by swordmind88
seeing her as in a "real date with dinner and resturant n shit"? no. or im not actually sure. weve been many places, we even went to a resturant once for coffee. shes always agreeing to go places when she has time tho, i dont know if that counts. never outside of work tho, i think that might be some sort of taboo to her.. i dont see the big deal, but thats what i think she feels. she doesnt want to go out of her confort zone of "just being at work" even tho she has no problem going for walks, coffee, breaks, WHATEVER with me.
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If a girl has/reciprocates feelings for you, you hang out more than just in lunch breaks.
You also touch in flirty, sexual ways - kind of like playground fighting with your crush at school
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Originally Posted by swordmind88
He doesnt appreciate his gift and his kids are gonna get brainwashed. How is that not douchebag behaviour?
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You still have yet to provide examples/evidence of this behaviour other than saying that he's christian or doesn't care. What is it that he does that is so bad?
I've known many Christians. Some are my best friends, some are abusive. Some are just normal people. I am calling you out on your logic because so far you have said that a girl you fancies boyfriend is Christian and that Christian = bad
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Originally Posted by swordmind88
Please explain why you are saying this, because she is showing alot of IOI's for being HV and she doesn not do that to other workmates. Dont just jump to conclusions. Im not saying its not possible, but i am able to read these things pretty well. Although this one is very HV and therefore would show those exact behaviours. No/Yes/No/Yes/No/Yes etc.
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You need to stop with the whole IOI, HV whatever crap. It sounds creepy and manipulative.
I'm talking to you from my own experience and reading what you're telling me. There've been girls at work I had a thing with and it was super obvious, we got drinks after work, sent messages and flirted.
I wasn't trying to get them to text me or hang out, just finding opportunities...
If you're not touching each other then it's not happening.