This girl who Ive been dating for 7 months dumps me by text message, 2 days before we are due to go on a pre-paid holiday together - so I tell her to go fuck herself and later that night send her a photo of me getting sucked off by another girl (I was drunk lol). Anyway, then I find another girl to come on the holiday with me and I post loads of pics of us having a good time all over FB etc. (Im thinking maybe Im in a bit of a fuck you phase at this stage lol) Of course the recent ex blocks me on every form of communication, except SMS oddly and I find this out bcs I remember that I lent her a laptop which I want back - so I sent her an SMS asking for it. she sends me a message saying she needs time to think - which I stupidly responded to and said OK. Do I write off the laptop, do I simply wait, do I SMS her and ask her to bring it over or just go over to her place and ask for it back, or some other thing.

Thoughts appreciated.

You were really petty in the way you handled the break up so she probably blocked you to avoid having more feelings hurt either way.

If it was me, I would text her again asking her to return it within 7 days.

Then I would go round and ask for it unannounced on the 8th.

Many thanks for the dose of common sense - yes I realise it was petty, I have an issue with reacting in an immature way out of anger, especially when under the influence - doing my best to work on that!